Babestation!!

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WRS · 30/01/2013 00:44

Before i fell pregnant my (now ex) boyfriend and I used to enjoy going out and getting pretty drunk. We had a good laugh together until I realised that, once we were home, everytime I left the room he was switching the tv over to babestation. I used to smoke (that stopped when i found out i was pregnant) and would only smoke in the kitchen but from there i could see the reflection of the tv in a picture that was hanging above 'his' seat. (He thought he was being sly and I didn't have a clue what he was up to.) When I noticed what was going on I never mentioned anything at first, infact i let it go on on for months, until it made me feel so shitty about myself that i went totally mental 1 night. I cannot get this out my head & it was the one of the main reasons we split up. Yes I realise that guys watch porn but surely that should be reserved for when they are in the house on their own or when i am sleeping??? Am I being unreasonable for letting this get to me so much or would you feel the same way?

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Harriet35 · 30/01/2013 00:49

Me and my dh used to watch it together! Still do sometimes but he works nights nowadays. I was watching it for a while when there was a thread on here about it the other night.

TheLateMrPamuk · 30/01/2013 00:57

My friend used to work for them. The blokes would ring up thinking they weRe talking to one of the girls in the background set or tv studio call room mad really they were talking to my mate while she did her housework.

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WRS · 30/01/2013 00:58

I wouldn't have minded as much if we'd been watching it together, i'm not a prude (we would do that with porno's sometimes) but it was the sneakiness and denial once i finally mentioned it that got to me so much.

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AllYoursBabooshka · 30/01/2013 01:11

I would feel he was a sad, sad little man.

Can you imagine how pathetic a person would have to be to put porn on every time their partner left the room?

Harriet35 · 30/01/2013 01:21

OP why didn't you say something about it the first time you saw him do it?

ripsishere · 30/01/2013 01:28

What is babe station?

Harriet35 · 30/01/2013 01:30

It's a soft porn TV station where women get their tits out and writhe seductively in order to entice men to ring them up.

BunnyLebowski · 30/01/2013 01:38

Babestation? Seriously?

Have these pathetic men not heard about an amazing new invention called the internet??

OP - just move on and be glad you're not now with such a complete and utter oxygen thief.

ripsishere · 30/01/2013 01:40

Really? I think I may have seen it at a friends house. The woman in question was neither young nor sexy. She was about 55 and her phone number was on the screen. is that it? it seemed to be a home number, Harold Hill IIRC.

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WRS · 30/01/2013 02:04

AllYoursBabooshka......You have made me feel better bout myself! He IS a sad sad little person! I realise that now.

Harriet3..... I did make comments but he did not seem to pick up on them or seem to want to hear what i was saying.... He was a bit of a bullly so I was scared to say too much. Silly, stupid old me is what i think when look back on it now.

BunnyLebowski... You are right, he is an oxygen thief...... Wish I could cut off his supply!!!

Thank you ladies xxx

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