thinking my ex is bang out of order

[belle7]

well this may seem a bit stupid but i just wanted to know what other people thought .

split with ex partner 2 years ago am now with a great guy . i tried at first to stay friends with ex as we had been through alot . both had helped each other through bad situations. but we haven't had contact for 18 months as when we did have contact i would just get a guilt trip from ex . he is now happy and engaged . life has gone on and i had forgotten about him ( well had managed not to associate things with him.) so today i open my emails and bang a email from him saying i cant believe you haven't wished me a happy birthday , WTF ive recently had a miscarriage and feel shit so why would he send this,

Sorry to hear about your miscarriage

But if he doesn't know about it, then it's just freakishly bad timing.

Ignore him anyway, he sounds about 6yrs old.

are you sure the tone wasn't humerous?

Sorry about the miscarriage but poster above is right he won't have known so its just bad timing.

If you havent had contact for 18months then he wouldnt know you've had a MC.

bad timing.

Have you thought of blocking the emails addy of people you don't want to hear from/talk to.?

Sounds like an another guilt trip. Ignore.

Tell him to stfu and never to contact u again the sad childish idiot.

He sent it because he still believes he is a major part of your life.He's not.So just leave him to it.

Sorry to hear about your miscarriage,take care of yourself and don't stress yourself over your ex....he genuinely isnt worth the headspace.

Just ignore it, bad timing but he wasn't to know.

I take it you do not have DC with your ex.

Tell him you can not believe his new partner would be impressed to know he still wants contact with you. It doesn't sound like he has fully moved on with his life. Second thoughts ignore him, then he has no reason for a come back.

YANBU to be pissed off. Sorry about your miscarriage. Hope everything works out for you.

thanks all just in a dark place at the mo and feel a bit useless . im normally the strong one but feel like poo.
ive always tried to support everyone but i cant support him .

you don't have to any more he is nothing to do with you now .

He sounds like an ex of mine. It's all about him isn't it? Ignore, disengage.

And I am very sorry for your loss. Look after yourself.

thanks all there is a chance he may of heard my news from mutual friends . all I want is for him to be happy
me and him were not ment to be .

I've moved on he needs to

NC fail?

Please d look after yourself.