A friend of mine has three children under 3. She also has an abusive, unfaithful husband. She is trapped at home because they cannot afford childcare for even one of their children, let alone all three. The single thing that would make the biggest difference to her life is properly subsidised childcare .
She would be able to get a job, regain some small measure of independence, and perhaps begin to rebuild her self esteem to the point where she wouldn't feel she had to submit to her husband's financial, emotional and sexual abuse.
I feel so lucky that I am able to earn enough that dh and I should be able to pay for childcare for as many children as we choose to have. Or I can choose to stay at home. Or he can. The point is that we have that choice. Many don't.
As I have seen others on MN mention, we really have to look at what kind of society we want. As it is usually mothers who end up staying at home with children, do we as a society recoup our investment in their education? Would it make more sense to just not educate women, if so many are to be excluded from the job market?
The friend I mentioned, for example has a master's degree. Her education was free to her, but cost this country money. If she has to stay at home, and cannot earn and pay tax, what was the logic in paying for that education?
I agree that the changes proposed will only serve to increase the profits of larger childcare providers. If the government really wanted to make any significant difference to parents, they would be announcing subsidised childcare, not this half-arsed headline-grabbing nonsense.