Yes I hope that's the case too, for my own daughter's sake.
It sounds like we are perhaps of a similar age, and certainly when I started work in 1976 the dinosaurs of that time were still frowning on a woman who "took a job from a man" when she had the nerve to work after marriage, let alone after having children (more or less unheard of).
The massive improvements in equality mean there is no such issue now. Women are positively encouraged to work outside the home but right now I fear that's got nothing to do with gender equality (note the gender gap in earnings) and everything to do with achieving increased tax revenue. That is the only way the Govt can deal with the deficit (as opposed to the debt).
While I understand the point you are making, and that work-life balance is important, the fact remains that even in households where both parents are working outside the home all the research suggests that there is no equality in the division of childcare and domestic work. Women still do by far the bulk of that work, in addition to the bulk of caring for elderly relatives and the like.
Even in households where the woman is the main earner, she still ends up doing most of this work.
I do not think that the equality debate has left even the tiniest mark on this element of the debate. Google "women do most of the housework" and take a look at the research, it's interesting - if rather depressing.
I have to say I just don't see any change in that regard through the generations. I have known women who work really hard in senior-level, highly demanding jobs, who spend evenings and weekends doing laundry and keeping the place tidy so the cleaner can vacuum the house. Another works ten hours a day as a childminder but did everything in the home - after all her husband did come home "exhausted".
I may sound old-fashioned, but it did strike me one day (after becoming a mum) that my one-time favourite feminist had never had children - and the "Superwoman" who had it all was actually already rich enough to afford live-in nannies and the like.
In all this, what about the children, and their rights? Is it truly desirable for very young children to spend so much of their lives away from parental care? Or is it simply expedient? Whose interests are served - the child's, or the parents'?
With all this talk focussing on the cost of childcare, and packing more children in with fewer workers, I do wonder.