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To want to pay £100 for overnight babysitting in London??

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hoxtonbabe · 27/01/2013 15:41

I am a single parent and very rarely go out at the best of times without the boys (ages 5 and 15) , I have the opportunity to get away for the weekend and after making some enquiries with a agency, it would seem the going rate for a 24 hours childminder/babysitter is £120. This doesnt seem to bad to me, however where it starts to get over budget is I then have to pay them 20% fee and then VAT, so I decided top advertise myself.

I have had some good responses, however a few have quibbled of the price. I wouldn't mind if they were saying an extra £20/30 but they are looking at nearer £200?!?

I am not sure if I am being unreasonable with my rate expectations, as I do not want a 16-18 year old watching them (my 15 year old is very good and doesn't give me trouble so I'll be dammed if I will get anyone close to his age in to corrupt him) but neither do I need a 20 year experienced nanny, as the 15 year does not need looking after as such, schucks...he irons his own clothes, tidies his room every sunday and puts his washing in the machine every sunday ready to iron in the evening for school. He buys milk and cereal when he can see it is running low, and I dont have to ask him and usually from his own money (he will make some woman very happy in time to come!)

Other than breakfast I will make sure all food is ready so all she will have to do is reheat and keep little one entertained, so not much physical work involved.

Is £100 too little??

Many thanks in advance for your responses

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Pengggwn · 08/07/2017 17:01

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TellMeItsNotTrue · 08/07/2017 17:03

I'm not sure she will still want a babysitter 4 years later Hmm

Pengggwn · 08/07/2017 17:04

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ghostyslovesheets · 08/07/2017 17:07

don't leave the 15 year old overnight - and certainly not with the smaller one

www.gov.uk/law-on-leaving-your-child-home-alone

ghostyslovesheets · 08/07/2017 17:08

OH FFS Z-O-M-B-I-E-T-H-R-E-A-D

WillRikersExtraNipple · 08/07/2017 17:11

Unless the details you want working out involve a time machine, you're out of luck.

It's not as if there isn't a big zombie warning!!

AndNowItIsSeven · 08/07/2017 17:14

Under 16's should not be left overnight and especially not in charge of a child. As your ds is 15 you would be legally responsible for any harm your 5 year old could come to even a freak accident.

WillRikersExtraNipple · 08/07/2017 17:22

Says who? There is no law against it and it's up to each family, not the internet.

Redglitter · 08/07/2017 17:24

As your ds is 15

Since the threads 4 bloody years old the son is actually 19 so no need to worry

ApocalypseNowt · 08/07/2017 17:27

Chill people. The 15 year old is now 19. I think everything's fine....

AndNowItIsSeven · 08/07/2017 17:31

Says nspcc , but what would they know WillRickets.
However as now 19 , irrelevant.

WillRikersExtraNipple · 08/07/2017 17:32

NSPCC give guidelines and suggestions, not orders and laws.

BewtySkoolDropowt · 08/07/2017 17:47

£100 for 24 hours is just over £4 per hour.

Would you work for that??

BewtySkoolDropowt · 08/07/2017 17:48

Gah!!! I skimmed the thread but clearly not well enough...

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