My DH does all things technological in our house. We have Apple everything, including Apple TV. DH has all his photos from his iPhone stored in iCloud. When apple tv goes into standby, it shows a random selection of his photos from his
Iphone.
One day, over Christmas, there was alot of tittering from my kids and their friends. There were 2 very unflattering photos of me getting dressed, floating about the screen. DH said he had been messing about with his phone,had taken the photos, and didn't know that they got uploaded etc etc.
I wasn't impressed, but remained cool, and trusted him to remove them.
About two weeks later, I again noticed that the photos were still there, and he said he would deal with it. I should add at this point, that about 50% of the photos are of receipts, because he uses the iCloud to transfer his receipts to his accountant.
So, tonight, I again catch sight of my lumpy 40 year old arse, floating about the screen, and I read him the riot act. He shut down and refused to speak. We watched the episode of the programme we were watching, and he took himself off to bed. I followed him up, and he said I had "hairdryered" him, and that it wasn't fair as he thought that the photos had been deleted.
Really? ?
I didn't know photos were being taken.
I didn't give any permission
I don't understand the iCloud. Are our accountants looking at me in my bra and knickers?
I don't want fucking awful photos of me springing to life on my tv.
It has taken me years to be comfortable enough to be seen in a swimsuit in public. I think I look great in clothes, but hate my naked self.
I don't know why he took silent photos of me, in my post Christmas plumpness.
He works in IT. He is very successful at it.
He thinks I'm being a knob for getting emotional about this.
I believe he is totally and utterly in the wrong and I feel gutted.
AIBU