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To wish the head would decide tonight?!

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PenguinBear · 20/01/2013 19:11

Our head doesn't like to close (fair enough) so staff are
expected to be in as normal unless he has a change of heart in the morning. All the other local schools are shut. 2 of us live in the same village so we are travelling in together at 7am as we think it could take a long time to get there, even though we've been told by colleagues in the place where we work that roads are dreadful!

So the DC will also be in, although would rather not put them in the car if we could avoid!

It has snowed continually throughout the day and there are no signs of it stoping any time soon. AIBU To want the head to decide tonight rather than wait till 7am?

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Velcropoodle · 20/01/2013 23:44

I think it must be very difficult actually making the decision, and I'm sure that they do try and weigh up everything..

SparklyAntlersInMyDecorating · 20/01/2013 23:58

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Bogeyface · 21/01/2013 00:22

I am struggling to get past the issues of that poor little girl :(

But do see why you feel that it wouldnt be workable. There is always one reason why it could fail and that one reason is usually a big enough reason to not risk it, as in this poor girls case.

happynewmind · 21/01/2013 00:30

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ravenAK · 21/01/2013 00:42

Actually, Bogeyface, I teach in a small-to-middling secondary school & know of two students who couldn't be in a situation with 'strange' teachers coming in to teach. That's on a 'need to know' basis, so there may be others.

I'd happily wander along to my nearest school (2 primaries in easy walking distance; the dcs school is a bit of a schlep but I could take them in & volunteer myself. No secondaries I could get to by opening time assuming I have to walk my own dc in).

However, it just seems a bit pointless from an educational POV. I can set relevant, useful work for my own students online & respond to their queries - much more efficient than me doing crowd control for 30 strange children whilst someone attempts to do likewise for mine. It'd inevitably end up, at best, with generic tasks of limited educational value.

So what we're really talking about here is avoiding any interruption to the service of childcare for working parents, isn't it?

I'm not saying that isn't a laudable aim - it's a complete PITA when my dc are off & I'm not, for whatever reason - but possibly not a good enough one to justify the attendant travel risks & cluttering up the roads when genuinely necessary journeys need to be happening.

sashh · 21/01/2013 05:33

Local authorities should issue all school staff with a photo ID pass (and agencies should do the same for supply teachers) and then staff that are CRB checked by county could go to work in their local school and have their ID verified.

I have just started at a new college, on day two I wore the wrong ID all day. I only noticed when I took it off to go home, no one else, including the security staff noticed.

I too want to know if I'm due in today, I have to set off at 7.30 ish, the website just says they are hoping to open.

Kafri · 21/01/2013 05:52

If the snow is severe enough then I think the decision can be made the night before. If its feasible to get in the night before but a risk of more overnight then it needs to be a morning decision.

Loads of people have put on FB tonight about not knowing whether their kids school is open tomorrow. Well, in my area the snow is hardly bad. The small side streets still have a bit but all the roads are clear. We've had it much worse here and still had schools open.
I'm AWFUL for driving in snow, a total wimp (I admit it). I absolutely hate it and do not do it at all if its bad. I either walk or stay in and even I have been out in the car in it. That's how mild it is where I am.

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JakeBullet · 21/01/2013 08:02

Our school is open and I am REAL glad as DS is being a miserable little wotsit. The school are welcome to him this morning quite frankly....snow or no snow.

Bogeyface · 21/01/2013 08:29

Due at school in 20 minutes, just found out that it is closed despite it being blindingly obvious at 6:30am that it wouldnt be accesible by locals never mind teachers from out of the area!

cricketballs · 21/01/2013 08:49

I was nearly at school when the message came through....took an hour longer than normal (I did expect that so set off really early) and the roads are horrendous; so glad my head has finally made a sensible, timely decision

snowingeverywhere · 21/01/2013 09:00

We are very lucky at our school, KHS in Epsom, the Head is very decisive and organised and informs the night before, How hard can it be?

SuffolkNWhat · 21/01/2013 09:04

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JakeBullet · 21/01/2013 09:09

Gah! We have had a text sayi g school is open but side roads inaccessible.....how in the hell are we meant to drop 400+ children off? Am not in walking distance either so have to drive.
Then again the radio has in error listed the school as closed...head teacher says it isn't and radio is incorrect but might plead ignorance.

Picturesinthefirelight · 21/01/2013 09:15

If you'd have asked me last night is have said of course school should be open its fine.

Who's up this morning- school us open and dh managed to make or into work to his school but the snow is much worse than I expected. It would be foolhardy for me to drive the kids 7 miles. My bias rang at 7.15am and said he was closing the office do I've kept them at home.

gazzalw · 21/01/2013 09:18

DS's school notified us yesterday evening and school website updated too. On the other hand DD's primary school hasn't knowingly sent any communication and only knew the school was open because we used a London-wide schools website we'd been alerted to by DS's school....

ihearsounds · 21/01/2013 09:42

Going to a local school to work isnt always practical.
I work in special needs. We hire no agency at all. All cover is done within the school. One of the main reasons is because the needs of our pupils are very complexed. Another reason is the training we have to go through to help our students. With a bunch of randoms, the care of our students, never mind the education, would be severly comprimsed. Randoms wont know how to do pc, which sling to use, the positioning when put back into chairs, who is able to eat and what, how to feed the students, who has brittle bones, who has seizures... Never mind those that on the at risk register, their details and how it is dealt with in school is on a need to know.
we have a handful of staff that are within walking distance, and we could not safely oversee randoms.

marriedinwhite · 21/01/2013 09:53

Reading through this thread - perhaps the reason schools didn't close when I was a lass and that sometimes it was OK for two classes to be combined because Mrs Bloggs really did get snowed in, was because in the 1960s and 1970s there weren't children with complex needs in mainstream schools and there were fewer children on at risk registers because children's homes were still the norm. Different world altogether. Still have some qualms though that we are allowing our dc to grow up with less backbone than was the case a few generations ago.

RustyBear · 21/01/2013 10:12

Not that this will help this winter, but in March, CRB checks are being replaced by the Disclosure and Barring Service. From our Governors' information digest "Once [this] check has been conducted, the results will be available online to enable employers to confirm that no new information has been added since the check was originally made. This means that an employee will not have to obtain a new check each time he or she starts a new job." Though, as yet, although this change is less than two months away, schools haven't yet been told exactly how it's going to work.

Though, having said that, I agree with several other posters that there are practical reasons why this may not be appropriate - our school, for example, has an ASD resource, and having a lot of random strangers in the school would only make an already difficult day far worse for many of our pupils.

LittleAbruzzenBear · 21/01/2013 10:29

Happy like you, I don't have a car and it is a 30 minute walk for us to the school in the snow as DS1 is 4YO and DS2 is in a pram. Last Wednesday, at 8:15 (the time we leave the house) the school website and phone message said they were open. We struggled up to the school and then a volunteer met those of us that walked to tell us that at 8:35 they decided to close. Thursday was a bit better, it was open. Friday was the same as Wednesday, for snow, they were closed. Anyway, this morning there is double the amount of snow we had last Wednesday and they are open! I can't get my pram through the snow and I have nobody who can help look after DS2 (6 months) so we have stayed at home.

FariesDoExist · 21/01/2013 11:07

I don't know what the solution is. What marriedinwhite says is very interesting. We are so much more cautious about everything these days.

However on BBC news right now - Caerphilly, Wales a school bus with 20 pupils on board has slipped down an embankment, the road has been closed to recover the bus.

It says nobody has been injured, thank goodness.

happynewmind · 21/01/2013 11:20

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Bogeyface · 21/01/2013 11:23

There's no excuse for that Happy they must have known much sooner if staff couldnt get in!

ReallyTired · 21/01/2013 11:31

I feel the police should make the decision about school closures rather than individual heads. Heads get it in the neck if they open the school, but they also get complained at if the school is shut.

If the local police made decisions then at least there would be some consistancy.

If its boarderline whether the roads are driveable then keeping the school run off the road makes it easier for those who have to get to work. However finding childcare is a nightmare on a snow day.

tiggytape · 21/01/2013 11:35

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