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To put £5.00 in a child's birthday card

38 replies

Shinyshoes1 · 18/01/2013 14:37

I haven't much money this month due to it being January and getting over Christmas .

My DD has 2 birthdays this weekend both of which are for children in her class

AIBU to put a fiver in each card ?

I know the children can't get much for a fiver but they can put it towards other money they may get

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ScalesAndMirrorsLie · 18/01/2013 15:58

£5 and a bag of haribos/choc buttons

But £5 is perfectly fine and hopefully very appreciated by the receiver

ChippingInNeedsSleepAndCoffee · 18/01/2013 16:01

£5 note is fine :)

5 x £1 coins even better
10 x 50p coins better than that
25 x 20p coins better still...

and uber exciting if you go for small, shiney 5p's Grin

Kids love money of their own to spend and £5 is plenty for a school friend.

halcyondays · 18/01/2013 16:07

It's fine. I wouldn't say you can't get much or a fiver, you could get sweets, books, a jigsaw or toy. My dds would probably buy a packet of Moshi Monsters, which they think are the best thing in the world.

CMP69 · 18/01/2013 16:37

Happens all the time DS (4) loes getting money, cos he can buy magazines with crappy plastic toys on the cover!

EssexGurl · 18/01/2013 16:51

YANBU. At my DS's school the "norm" is a collection among the parents with £5 being the typical contribution. If people don't get to make the collection, they bung a fiver in the card. Nicer in a collection, but they still get the money.

JoshuaSalim · 12/08/2019 16:56

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ShinyMe · 12/08/2019 17:03

Zooooombie thread!

Bornfreebutinbiscuits · 12/08/2019 17:23

My dc love getting a fiver in a card!! They can buy magazine, sweets etc.

bridgetreilly · 12/08/2019 17:48

It's perfectly reasonable, I just irrationally hate it. They're 5 years old, the shops are full of things they'd like for a fiver! Let them have the fun of opening a present.

bridgetreilly · 12/08/2019 17:48

Oh, FFS. ZOMBIE.

ErickBroch · 12/08/2019 17:57

£5 is very nice!!

ShinyMe · 12/08/2019 18:02

JoshuaSalim was just touting their website.

Bravelurker · 12/08/2019 18:41

Re zombie :it literally says 'as it's January' in the first sentence Grin.

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