FFS misgoynistic or what .....

[lemonstartree]

My DP whilst playing Scrabble with my youngest DS (7) has been making words such as 'bint'; 'harpie' and 'sag - whch apparently applies to all women over the age of 40... its TIC but what messages is he sending to DS2 (10) and DS 3 (7)

am beginning to lose my sense of humour?

Well, he's spelt harpy wrong for a start.

He might have spelt 'sag' wrong too!

Who said they apply to women over 40?

If your DP said that with a snigger or something then YANBU but if those were just the best words he could make with the tiles he had then YABU

sag?

YANBU. Does he really teach his children these words?

So what have you said to him about it?

He's spelt harpie just fine

The spelling he's used is acceptable

No, but a quick review of his music/ tv choices should reveal the source of this.

YANBU. He's being a total arsewipe. You could spell "premature" or "tiny cock" just to get your own back, or you could slap him upside his head. Choice is yours.

ooh i take thhat back

it's a commonly used spelling but not acceptable in scrabble

Bit is a welsh word, perhaps you could teach yours DCs the correct meanings and spellings

Regardless of spelling those words arent appropriate with children.

Please tell me sag isnt a misspelling if slag?!!

Has he completely lost his senses how utterly childish - and wrong in front of his children - what a silly old git he is :)

he keeps saying things like Harpies are winged beasts form the underworld, like women who winge and bicker and moan all the time...

As in he is being vu :)

Harpy is acceptable to children - just not his meaning

Ditto slag or sag

Bints out of order though

Looks like you need a better quality P... one that has something approaching a decent vocabulary, ideally can actually SPELL what he writes, AND that supports your education of your boys.

I'd have a word with my boyf if he used misogynistic language like this around my son.

YANBU. I'd be ending the game tbh.

Have you told him to stop and explained why? Or are you just rolling your eyes and telling MN how awful he is for teaching your sons to talk about women like that?

I think I have a girl-crush on HappyNewHissy.

And Wem.

His spelling is fine but not for scrabble

His attitude is not fine

I have told him I find this unacceptable. He says its a joke and of course the boys find it hilarious....

tbh he doesn't Behave in a misogynistic way, but I totally disagree with this kind of 'joke'....

It's no joke.

StraightTalkinSheila

Devils advocate could argue that you could always join in and place twit, sissy or douche? But moral high ground and ending the game is probably a better example for your DC's

Your DP sounds incredibly immature. God Forbid your son ever repeats any of these words in front of an adult,especially at school - it will definitely raise eyebrows and colour people's perception of your child and your family.