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MeganScarlett · 13/01/2013 12:59

Me and a friend agreed to go out for coffee this morning. Texting each other last night to confirm.

Friend - what time do you want to meet?
Me - Lets say 10?
Friend - Lets make it half past instead.
Me - Great. See you tomorrow.

I get a call at 10 asking where I was. When she said lets make it half past I assumed she meant 10:30, whereas she actually meant 9:30.

Am I the only one who would assume that she meant 10:30?

(this is light-hearted by the way and no one has fallen out or got upset etc)

OP posts:
wibblyjelly · 13/01/2013 13:20

10:30

MeganScarlett · 13/01/2013 13:21

haha yes I will do QOD

urban yeah if it was Monday or Tuesday than you would definitely just say "this Thursday"

OP posts:
YellowDinosaur · 13/01/2013 13:21

And urbanproserpine your Mum was right in that conversation too imho. If it was Monday /tues when they had the conversation your aunt should have simply said 'Thursday'if the funeral was that week.

takeaway2 · 13/01/2013 13:23

1030 and the Thursday next week!

urbanproserpine · 13/01/2013 13:23

I'm with her - but as they grew up together its funny that they were both so adamant what they meant.

MeganScarlett · 13/01/2013 13:26

But surely next Thursday would imply that there was another Thursday inbetween and seeing as it was either Monday or Tuesday then there was only one Thursday.

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PostmanPatsBlackandWhiteCat · 13/01/2013 13:26

10:30

PuppyMonkey · 13/01/2013 13:28

10.30 and it should be "on Thursday"

lottiegarbanzo · 13/01/2013 15:15

Oh, there was a long and emphatic discussion in an office I worked in once about 'this Thursday' and 'next Thursday'. That's it, it is either this or next, the next one is this, the following one is next, next is not this!

The only room for ambiguity lies on Friday and Saturday when 'next Thursday' could be 'the Thursday of next week' rather than 'the next Thursday', in which case you might say 'Thursday week' for the following one.

Wheresmycaffeinedrip · 13/01/2013 15:21

I'd have thought 10:30 :)

Anniegetyourgun · 13/01/2013 15:25

10:30, and "this Thursday".

SpicyPear · 13/01/2013 15:27

10.30 - she is wrong wrong wrong!

Alisvolatpropiis · 13/01/2013 15:46

10:30

maddening · 13/01/2013 15:55

10.30

BertieBotts · 13/01/2013 15:58

10.30 here too. Perhaps she meant to type half past nine but her phone ate the nine or something?

Frikadellen · 13/01/2013 15:59

I would have checked but mostly because being Danish half in this case would to me mean 9 30 but to most of my friends mean 10 30 so I would have shot of another text saying 10.30? or ok see you at 10.30 unless I hear otherwise

easy to say yes but to me half is not an agreement grins..

TiaMariaandSpringCleaning · 13/01/2013 16:05

10.30 and this thursday, or just 'on thursday'

ethelb · 13/01/2013 16:07

10.30

NormaStanleyFletcher · 13/01/2013 16:10

10.30 and this thursday

Startail · 13/01/2013 16:11

10.30 as that was the last text.

catgirl1976 · 13/01/2013 17:09

10:30

StuntGirl · 13/01/2013 17:12

10.30.

NewYearNewNagoo · 13/01/2013 17:18
  1. this thursday.

It's a whitewash Grin

VariousBartimaeus · 13/01/2013 17:22

10.30

And to throw in another one, "this summer" --> does that mean last summer (so 2012) or the next one (so 2013)?!

For me it's 2013, 2012 is "last summer" but apparently it's not that for everyone I talk to...

(I realise it could vary depending on the time of the year)

HoHoHoNoYouDont · 13/01/2013 17:25

10.30

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