For wanting dp to come home.

[outnumberedbythree]

I've just called dp and asked him to come home dcs are at mils and i haven't seen him since thursday i'm not feeling all that well and tbh need a bit of a hug and he just told me hes not coming home because he doesn't want to catch what i have as he has just got over it and was quite nasty about it i really feel like crying! aibu for wanting him to not only come home because i'm sick but because we have no dcs and would be nice just to have an evening together as we don't have them very often.

See, people who love you don't just want to be there for the good bits, they want to be there when you need them too.

You are already separate, so just make it final. That way you won't expect anything from him and won't be disappointed, and have a fighting chance of meeting a man you treats you with love and kindness.

oh and I hope you feel better soon.

How will he catch it if he's already had it? Presumably you caught it off him?

This isn't a relationship.

And tbh, I don't think he wants to be with you at all

Everything you say ladies i must admit is true i really don't think he does give a flying fuck about me and yes dcs are his.