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to wish I could to name and shame this idiotic driver?

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Permanentlyexhausted · 11/01/2013 22:35

Driving home from work tonight I was almost run off the road not once, but twice ... by the same sodding driver.

The first time we were on the dual carriageway. She overtook me on the right hand side whilst signalling left, and then swerved in front of me. So close that she was already partly in my lane before she'd cleared the front of my car. There had been a car in front of me signalling and slowing to turn off so she almost collided with that one as well. All this at 60mph. I braked hard to avoid her and then leaned on my horn because the red mist was beginning to descend. We carried on down the road a bit with her still endlessly signalling left until I flashed my lights at her. That meant she stopped signalling but failed to turn off her blinding and unnecessary foglight.

We then carried on home on single carriageway roads and she certainly wasn't shy of the accelerator. When we reached the next town, about 15 miles further along, the road widens into 3 lanes as it approaches a roundabout. She signalled left and went into the left hand lane (where I also wanted to go) and then drifted into the middle lane before swerving back into the left hand lane and missing me by inches again. This time I braked hard and leant on the horn for a lot longer. I last saw her dithering around in the middle of the road as I escaped round the roundabout and breathed a sigh of relief.

It doesn't sound bad written down but she certainly scared me tonight. I was furious! I appreciate she may not have known where she was going (sat nav stuck to the windscreen a clue there), but that is no excuse for not looking out of the windows to see where everyone else is on the road.

Having sat behind her for a hefty proportion of my journey home I couldn't help but have her registration plate imprinted on my eyeballs. It's tempting to share, but probably against the guidelines!

And breathe!

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bumperella · 11/01/2013 22:39

It amazes me how many crap drivers there are on the roads.

OldBeanbagz · 11/01/2013 22:40

If you have her numberplate then you can always give the police a call and make a complaint. Whilst it's your word against hers, it might make her think about her driving a bit more if the police came knocking.

Someone once made a complaint against my SIL as they thought she's cut them up too tight and she was very shocked when the police called round. It didn't go to court but it did make her stop and think about whether she'd been driving inconsiderately.

Hanikam · 11/01/2013 22:42

Once took a photo of bad parking, blocking a road into town centre. She was in the shop, and when the old dear came out she gave the bus driver a right mouthful when he dared to question her parking.

I snapped it, and put it on twitter. Illegal? Who knows? Satisfying? Hell yeah!

LindyHemming · 11/01/2013 22:47

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HollyBerryBush · 11/01/2013 22:48

car could be lent or stolen

VBisme · 11/01/2013 22:49

On a motorway down south a lorry had got himself into the wrong lane, I was in the middle lane, the traffic was bumper to bumper and there were cars in the fast lane so I couldn't pull out.
He indicated, then pulled out, straight at me, I honked my horn (honestly to let him know I was there, I assumed he hadn't seen me), he carried on into my lane.
I had to move slightly across the lines into the fast lane (although there was room for cars in the fast lane to still avoid me) and slam my brakes on to avoid a collision. How it didn't create an accident I don't know.
However I recognised the name of the firm, it's one based locally in the North of England that the company I work for have used a lot in the past.
Well, not any more..........

JumpingJackSprat · 11/01/2013 22:51

Maybe you should have given her a wider berth at the roundabout seeing as you observed her driving poorly for quite some time until then. There are crap drivers on the road but dont put yourself in harms way. why not hang back to let her get right out of the way. Plus you say she wasnt shy of the accelerator but you cant have been either or you wouldnt have still been behind her at the roundabout. and before someone asks, no im not the driver in the OP!!

LRDtheFeministDragon · 11/01/2013 22:52

That is scary.

I agree, report it if you have the number.

pigletmania · 11/01/2013 22:57

That's why some people should not drive. Not everyone are godd safe drivers

WhereYouLeftIt · 11/01/2013 22:58

If you have the registration, phone the police and give them the details, they will follow it up.

I was persuaded to do this by my colleagues when I got into work, shaken by another driver's actions. They got back to me that that had 'had a word' with him. At his office, since apparently it was a company car. Oh to have been a fly on his boss's wall ...

Permanentlyexhausted · 11/01/2013 23:04

JumpingJackSprat I was giving her a pretty wide berth but, as she had moved into the middle lane and was in a queue of traffic and there was nothing in front of me at all in the left hand lane I started to drive alongside her to approach the roundabout. It's not an unreasonable thing to do.

With regard to the speed, it is 15 miles of single-carriageway road with virtually nowhere to overtake. So it isn't hard to catch up with someone when they get caught behind a something slower, even if they have been driving a lot faster than you. At one point she was streaking ahead of me (must have been doing at least 70 as I was doing 60) until she came up behind a large slow lorry.

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Permanentlyexhausted · 11/01/2013 23:09

I'd never thought about reporting it to the police before. I see a lot of crap driving on that particular journey - partly because of what I just said to JumpingJackSprat about the lack of opportunity to overtake. People get terribly frustrated when they know they are stuck for the next 15 miles behind something doing 40 when the speed limit is 50/60 and they are trying to get to work, myself included (not that I'm generally an overtaker on that road - it scares me too much!)

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NickyNackyNooNoo · 12/01/2013 00:18

I reported a shocking driver to the police - dickhead driver overtook on a blind bend & something came the other way Shock how they missed I'll never know.

Anyway the police said I wasn't the first to report him that night & they were going to have "a word with him"

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