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AIBU?

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To invite you all to come and hear me rant about a twunt of a driver.

9 replies

VikingVagine · 11/01/2013 20:38

Disclaimer: I live in France.

So, Tuesday morning, DH was driving to work in my car when a lollipop man signed for him to stop to let some kids cross. DH had to break obviously and the person behind slammed into the back of him, completely crushing the boot.

They pulled over, inspected the damage, couldn't find a form (constat in French, not sure what the English word is) so exchanged numbers and went on their separate ways.

Now the complicated bit.

We are buying a new car, it's been ordered with a delivery date of end of March. We are supposed to be trading my car in as a part exchange. Bearing in mind my car is pretty old and in need of a lot of work I would have thought the garage would be scrapping it.

The next complicated bit.

The car had just been through its MOT and there are a few things that need doing before it goes back again for a retest (contre-visite) in February.
Now it is beyond repair so it can't pass the MOT. So we will have no car between then and the delivery date of the new car, almost two months.

The dealership garage are no longer willing to part exchange because of the state of the car so we'll have to make up the difference.

The bit I want to rage about.

The man responsible for the accident is now refusing to sign the accident form. In France you legally have five days to do it, in this case by the end of tomorrow. He's already started to repair his car himself and as far he's concerned it's too late, we missed our chance. He was horrible on the phone, shouting and stuff before eventually hanging up (DH tried, then I had a go).

The frustrating bit.

DH only got the man's first name and his mobile number. No registration, address or surname

DH is going to the insurance tomorrow to see if anything can be done.

So, AIBU to ask you to help me make up suitable insults for this man? Not that I can use them IRL but it will deffinately make me feel better on here.

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VikingVagine · 11/01/2013 20:39

Huh, there's an AIBU in the title and in the OP so I am already BU.

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Booboostoo · 11/01/2013 21:57

In France mobile numbers are tied to a contract (you need ID, RIB, etc to start a contract). Try going to the police with the mobile number to see if they can trace the owner.

blackeyedsusan · 12/01/2013 00:17

il est un.... twat... hth?

SoleSource · 12/01/2013 00:34

Merd tete

HoHoHoNoYouDont · 12/01/2013 00:39

Vous est non being unreasnablay.

Ok, so I can't speak French!

VikingVagine · 12/01/2013 07:18

DH is going to the police this morning to see if they can help. We both slept really badly because of this. What a total arsehole.

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ErikNorseman · 12/01/2013 07:56

Umm, he's an arsehole, but what was your dh thinking?

Lilithmoon · 12/01/2013 08:35

Any chance there was a CCTV camera nearby?
I feel for you OP :(

VikingVagine · 12/01/2013 11:50

No CCTV. Police have said they can't do anything because they exchanged phone numbers Hmm , insurance have said to go back Monday to do a declaration with or without the twat's signature. We'll give them all the info possible and they'll look into it.

Basically we'll just have to fork out the money for the new car and hope to get some of it back at a later date never .

I'm trying not to say anything unpleasant to DH, he's just too nice and trusting. He won't do it again this is the third time, but the other two times the other drivers were nice too .

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