Aibu to get annoyed over my bil and his girlfriend impending wedding. To start at the begining ive not really hot on with them from first off dont know why they up until recently not done anything to me. They got engaged about a year ago which is fine apart from we still havent been told we found out via a social networking site. We recently lost my mil and they have announced that they are getting married in her birthday this will be the first year we will be marking her birthday since her tragic death. aibu to think that its a bit out of order. my other issue is they r getting married a fair distance from.where we all live snd expect us to travel.a good three hours with a young toddler just for a ceremony as the evening party is held at a later date. Another point i jsve is that yhe only resson we eere told was so that i didnt arrang my friends hen do at the same time otherwise we would still be in the dark until invites arrive.