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FoxtrotFoxtrotSierra · 10/01/2013 15:40

I'm a mature student and am a member of a Facebook group set up by one of the chaps on my course. Practically every post on it is making me want to gouge my own eyes out due to the text-speak or misspelling of very simple words.

In the last two days I've seen:

"Does anyone no" instead of "Does anyone know"
"Few" instead of "Phew"
My name all in lower case twice
Full stops instead of spaces

It's driving me potty!

WIBU to rewrite their comments underneath correctly? We actually have lessons on how to write (full stops at the end of sentences, appropriate use of lower and upper case letters) and I'm beginning to understand why!

Do younger people just not write how we oldies do anymore?

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InNeedOfBrandy · 10/01/2013 17:16

I am not known for spelling or grammar or pedantary (ery is it even a word) I type how I speak and auto correct is on so it doesn't always come out like how it sounds in my head.

I would be offended if a friend did what you want to do on my FB.

But I got the rage in the dentist a few days ago, took dd in and she needs another further appointment, I ask to make an appointment and the receptionist says yes when would you like to rebook, I answer no I don't want to rebook I want a new appointment, she said yes rebook I said no I would like to make a brand new appointment please and she said ok I'll rebook you in blablabla date. I so wanted to say look you silly cow your a receptionist you should be able to speak properly and know the difference between booking and rebooking argh but I just smiled and said very slowly ok I'll ring and confirm with someone else since I don't think you understand me and breezed out.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 10/01/2013 17:19
Confused

Did she not just mean she'd book your DD in again? As she's already had one appointment?

Or do you mean she thought you already had an appointment set up and you wanted to change the date?

InNeedOfBrandy · 10/01/2013 17:21

No dd had her appointment and needed another appointment unrelated to that appointment if that makes any sense. It wasn't where she missed it and had to rebook it for a later date.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 10/01/2013 17:24

So what was wrong with what she said?

I think she just mean 'book in again'. Whenever I got to the hairdresser the receptionist asks me what sort of date I want to rebook for, I don't see anything odd about it.

InNeedOfBrandy · 10/01/2013 17:28

Maybe your right, it sounded odd to me. I always though rebook meant rebook your appointment because you missed it or it was an ongoing thing not a totally new one.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 10/01/2013 17:30

No, I think you're probably technically right but I don't think I would have noticed it. It's quite a jargon-y thing to say IMO.

InNeedOfBrandy · 10/01/2013 17:32

www.thefreedictionary.com/rebook

www.businessdictionary.com/definition/rebooking.html

are the only 2 examples I can find after typing in to rebook, what does rebook mean and just rebook on its own. I was right so it seems unless you can point me in the right direction to show otherwise.

InNeedOfBrandy · 10/01/2013 17:33

xpost

LRDtheFeministDragon · 10/01/2013 17:34

No, that link does say it can just mean 'book again', though.

I think you were talking cross-purposes with her as she mean the first meaning and you thought she meant the second!

InNeedOfBrandy · 10/01/2013 17:35

Yes but it wasn't booking again it was booking a whole new type of appointment.

ResolutelyCheeky · 10/01/2013 17:36

It appears to be compulsary on fb to use too many !'s and ?'s. There is no point in "!!!" surely?

LRDtheFeministDragon · 10/01/2013 17:36
Grin

I feel like the poor receptionist now!

She meant because you had just had one appointment, she was booking in for another one.

HoratiaWinwood · 10/01/2013 17:37

There's being right, and there's being an arse.

You left without making a further appointment, just to prove a point about semantics? You do realise you are the twat in that story, right?

I don't correct on Facebook even when it feels like my brain is melting through my ears because the rules are different there.

InNeedOfBrandy · 10/01/2013 17:40

I did make the appointment, I just rang and confirmed later with someone else that the treatment appointment had been booked.

nickelbabe · 10/01/2013 17:43

this should be in pedants' corner.

i would have commented on the "i no this stuff" comment.

the full stops instead of spaces are because they're posting from their phones. the full stop is right next to the space bar, and on some keyboards, it's easy to hit the . instead of the space

thebody · 10/01/2013 17:46

If this really bugs you then you need more excitement in your life.

Correcting another persons spelling is so very bloody rude and patronising.

My oldest has a degree in engineering but has dyslexia so can't spell. So fucking what.

TuftyFinch · 10/01/2013 17:49

I have spent a large proportion of my life teaching homophones. The proportion of my time spent doing this is larger than I would have liked.

redexpat · 10/01/2013 19:00

Well, believe it or not, many students do know the difference, but they don't really care when writing on FB. If you have to do a group projet at any point YWNBU to correct such mistakes.

LindyHemming · 10/01/2013 19:03

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ResolutelyCheeky · 11/01/2013 09:50

Euphemia You probably wouldn't be able to read the reply without having a severe tic anyway.
It takes me ages some days to work out what people are saying on FB when they are using a combination of text speak and Black Country together, and I am from the Black Country!

merlottits · 11/01/2013 09:58

It is such a delicate situation isn't it? I'm in a similiar situation. I'm a health care professional and we have recently started a charity. The colleague who does the publicity (degree educated professional) spells worse than a primary school child.

Recent facebook status update "thanks too all the people who donnated the're time, your amasing!".

Ignore and get a stomach ulcer from repressed rage or start World War 3 in the work place?

oldraver · 11/01/2013 10:05

If its just a few odd words that could be a mistake (I mixed up 'no' and 'know' recently on MN and didn't realise until I saw the post, and no editing on MN) it wouldn't bother me.... but it does pain me when I see total sentences in text speak

ResolutelyCheeky · 11/01/2013 10:15

Weird thing just happened. Clicked onto my FB account and the first post is one of my friends 'liking' a photo from Black Country Photos!
Now I am wondering if Euphemia is my friend?

picketywick · 11/01/2013 11:50

Foxtrot Bad spelling does not prevent understanding. And Mumsnet is for everyone, not just good spellers. its not an exam just a discussion. Let good and bad spellers join the debate. Everyone welcome. That said , teachers should be able to spell

Tiiiny · 11/01/2013 11:57

YANBU but might come across as a knob if you do it.

It's people who mix 'lose' and 'loose' that get me. When I read I say the words in my head so it drives me mad.

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