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AIBU to be disappointed and yet relieved that I'm not pregnant...?

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ScarletLady02 · 08/01/2013 19:23

Since the end of last week I've had this real nagging feeling I might be pregnant...same feeling I had with DD, same symptoms etc.

The timing couldn't be worse.....no money, still not feeling back to my old self since having DD, it's been a struggle for me blah blah blah.

So I did a test today and it was negative....I was relieved but also disappointed and that really surprised me. It was like before the test I could only think of the cons.....and now it's gone I can only think of the pros...

Sorry, bit of a random post, but wanted to know if it's normal to feel so conflicted...we always talked of having another but DD is challenging and I didn't think I'd be able to cope....but now I'm not sure.

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GregBishopsBottomBitch · 08/01/2013 19:27

I understand, i once thought i was preg with a second, but i wasnt i was relieved because DD was so young, but also a little disappointment, sometimes i think i want another.

extracrunchy · 08/01/2013 20:03

Totally not BU - I had exactly the same situation with the same reaction!

BlackholesAndRevelations · 08/01/2013 20:04

YANBU but it ain't over til the fat lady sings, so to speak...

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