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to think sleeping with open windows in January is only Right And Proper?

259 replies

RevoltingPeasant · 01/01/2013 22:18

Seriously, surely this is normal? DH just made his 'pained face' when I popped up to air the bedroom prior to retiring. Over Christmas I opened all the windows in my mum's and PILs' insanely overheated windows before going to sleep. I almost always have open windows to get fresh air whilst we sleep.

I don't know how anyone can sleep in a stuffy room with the windows shut all day and all night! DH keeps saying 'But it's December'. Apart from the fact that it's now January, isn't he BU??

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InNeedOfBrandy · 02/01/2013 07:13

I live in a ground floor flat, my bedroom window is spitting distance away from a bus stop no way could I sleep with the windows open.

I do open them every morning, that's all windows not just bedrooms and dc bedroom window is open till I go to bed as their room seems stuffy all the time.

I don't like going to bed cold I like fresh air but not at night when I'm in bed. Why would you want to be cold for?

lyndie · 02/01/2013 07:27

It must be only in very quiet areas you could keep the window open at night!

trapclap · 02/01/2013 07:35

I live in a ghetto! I think you just get used to the noises

PigletJohn · 02/01/2013 07:37

YABU and your poor DH has my sympathy.

You should buy him a dual-control kingsize electric blanket before he digs a hole under the patio.

Meglet · 02/01/2013 07:49

Yabu!

I can only sleep in a hot room, usually keep it at 22 overnight. Fleece + thermal PJ's and mahoosive winter duvet. Even cool air against my face wakes me up and keeps me up for ages. Yes, I'm a lightweight.

ledkr · 02/01/2013 07:54

How has this issue just arisen? Did you marry yesterday?

lottiegarbanzo · 02/01/2013 08:01

We don't need to open windows to get a cool, well ventilated house (Edwardian single glazing achieves that) and have to put extra heating on to keep dd's room at 16c at night. Doing something that would raise our heating bills further, as air flow means our room is not isolated, is not a choice I'm going to make.

Onetwothreeoops · 02/01/2013 08:13

How do you lot makes yourselves get out of bed in the morning? I would hate to get up in a freezing room and go from snugly warm to shivery in a few seconds. That's why my windows stay shut that and my fear of a break in

Bunbaker · 02/01/2013 08:20

I always open the bedroom windows first thing in the morning to air them. Also we never sleep with the bedroom door closed unless we have guests, or with the heating on overnight unless it is exceptionally cold (then we would only have it ticking over to prevent the pipes from freezing)

I can't sleep with the windows open as the noise keeps me awake and at this time of year it is just too cold.

So I don't understand why everyone else's bedroom is hot and stuffy.

EightToSixer · 02/01/2013 08:44

YANBU.i throw open the big windows every night even in snow, do not heat bedroom, have a summer duvet all year etc. I get boiling at night and panic about not having fresh air whilst sleeping. I wondered whether this is because I have asthma? Do the rest of you with open windows have asthma too?
In the summer I also need a fan directed right at me so I can feel like I can breathe.

DH has resigned himself to this way of living but has been caught in the act of closing the windows a fraction before and paid the price. :-D

I dread to think what I'll be like when I hit menopause, I already get hot and sweaty far too easily.

My neighbours always comment that we sleep with windows open but are glad we do as I preventing two car thefts by hearing people fiddling with locks and also regularly yell at drunk people to move along rather than chat outside our house (we live in a quiet area and I'm a light sleeper so I don't think I'd cope anywhere noisier or I'd be awake all the time).

OhyouMerryLittleKitten · 02/01/2013 08:52

Heating comes on half an hour before we get up and I. Warm my clothes on the radiator!

mankyscotslass · 02/01/2013 08:53

YANBU. We have to have our bedroom window open overnight or we wake up feeling stuffy and fuzzy.

Before we get in bed one or other of us checks if the window is open.

we have a medium tog duvet on, an electric under blanket if we are very chilly, and we sleep starkers. The heating also goes off on timer about 8.30/9pm, and comes on 15 minutes before we get up at 5.45.

We don't freeze. Grin

AlwaysWantingMore · 02/01/2013 08:59

If you are a paid up member of the fresh air brigade look away now, what you are about to see may horrify you.

During the winter, we not only don't open the windows. We don't even open the shutters. And sometimes not even the curtains.

CharlotteBronteSaurus · 02/01/2013 09:09

i would love to join you in the fresh air brigade, but an unhealthy paranoia about home security runs through DH's family, and he can't sleep with open windows for worrying. so i have to run up and open a window an hour before bed, which he shuts later.

OhDearNigel · 02/01/2013 09:19

Why do people who like to be cold feel as if they have some sort of moral superiority over those that like to be warm ? ?

And all of you that have your windows open and the heating on, you do realise that your heating costs are going literally out of the window ?

lottiegarbanzo · 02/01/2013 09:31

Do the window openers have heating on at night? That hadn't occurred to me.

We would never have heating on overnight, except now dd is here, when it's very cold I set it for an hour from 2am to stop her room dropping to 13 or 14c.

Thing is, having windows open would mean the heating that comes on for a bit in the morning would not be so effective, so we'd either have to put it on for longer or have a colder house during the day.

Sparklingbrook · 02/01/2013 09:34

No we don't have the heating on at night.

usualsuspect3 · 02/01/2013 09:44

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mankyscotslass · 02/01/2013 09:56

No, no heating on from 8.30/9 pm til 5.45/6am

Piemother · 02/01/2013 12:51

Yanbu. I can't bear stale air I open the windows all the time if the room has even the slightest odour. Euw to windows closed all the time.

trapclap · 02/01/2013 13:11

people dont have heating on over night do they? even if the windows are closed? that is madness

BunFagFreddie · 02/01/2013 13:19

We all have bedroom widows cracked open here. It's much healthier.

InLoveWithDavidTennant · 02/01/2013 13:22

i cant sleep unless a window is open, no matter how cold or noisy it is outside. on the rare occastions where my dh has closed it, i wake all the time, get a headache, my nose gets blocked, i get a sore throat, and i snore really bad.

he does complain about the cold, but im a warm bodied person (more so than most people, im rarely cold) so he snuggles till he gets too hot

Meglet · 02/01/2013 13:24

I have the windows closed and heating on overnight. If I'm not moving I get cold, no matter how many layers I wear.

When I go for a run in the winter I just wear a t-shirt as my body heats up, as soon as I'm back inside in warm clothes but not moving fast then I get cold.

usualsuspect3 · 02/01/2013 13:25

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