to think she could at least have sent a text ?

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we had a big party yesterday and at dds request I invited some of her friends from school with their familes

one mum phoned and asked if it was ok to bring her sister and her 3 children as well as her, her partner and their 3 children making them a group of 9 in total. no problem the more the merrier

not one of them turned up. no text no phone call nothing.. I sent a text this morning and just got a message back saying "oh sorry didn't really feel like it"

aibu to think this is both rude and inconsiderate ?

That is so rude!! Some people just don't think do they!

Very rude.

Yes rude. But the clue was in her asking to bring 9 people long in the first place tbh.
Don't invite her again.

Yes rude.

Yanbu. Very rude indeed - the extra ask AND not turning up. Perhaps you were better off without them.

Very rude and inconsiderate.

But perhaps if she knew it was a 'big party' she thought that 9 people either way wouldn't make any difference.

Still... that reply to your text... unbelievable. Cheeky cow.

. Sorry, just have to laugh at that. She seriously contemplated brining 9 people to your party and then decided she didn't feel like it? What a bloody weirdo!

Maybe she didn't want to come so asked if the extras could come hoping you'd say no...

That is rude she should have text and said she us not coming

Rude and weird. Don't bother asking her in future.

How bloody rude. I'd be asking when she's coming round for all the food you prepared for them.

How have you responded? In reality, I would reply "I would have appreciated notification", then never speak to the cow again.

Really bloody rude.

I would respond with "I don't feel like wasting all the extra food and drink I bought to accommodate your 9 guests.
Did you mean to be so rude?"

That's really rude! Yanbu

Shockingly rude!

Didn't feel like it?

How rude and dismissive.

Ignorant woman.

I didn't really mind her asking to brijg extras. her sister has just been through bad separation so was staying with them. we did it as a sort of drop in party 45 people came and went during 4 hours but
as we knew they'd be so many we did get extra drinks for. children and topped up party food. just annoyed I l suppose. quite a few people didn't come because they had norovirus but they all managed a quick
text.

never mind.happy new year let's hope her sislter had a. better one

ps sorry typing awful feedong squirkmy ds