I had to work abroad for the last three months and I was seeing my boyfriend at the time. We had only been together 4 months and we knew I would be away for at least 3 months.
He constantly told me that it was ok for me to sleep with someone whilst I was away. This comment did hurt me because no one wants their partners to be ok with them being with someone else.
We decided to stay together and try and make things work. There was a big time difference and he would take days to reply to emails, or be tired when I called etc. We decided to go on a break because things obviously weren't working.
I then met someone and had a fling with them. I really liked them, but after I moved back things ended (again because of distance).
My boyfriend got back in touch (he knew I'd been seeing someone else) and we've been out a few times together. We are kind of seeing each other again.
However I've found out that he's told people that we broke up because I was in his words "shagging around."
I really don't feel like I cheated ....
But I'm sure, maybe my judgement is slightly clouded, so aibu?