Im 14 weeks pg, and have HG. So have been really very very poorly constantly since October. (inc in hospital for IV rehydration as is normal for HG)
OH has managed really well, looking after our 15m baby, seeing to her before work, after work and at night when necessary, and either dropping her to nursery (who had a place and let her go whenever) and my mum has been up to stay for a few days a week for the whole of november until last week. (she lives 5 hours away), and has been looking after DD during the days she's here.
I have ordered every single Christmas present online, and other than the co-op have not been to a shop at all since october. (I hate shopping in shops at the best of times, almost everything in this house is delivered from me clicking on some website )
Due to the fact we have moved house this year, and had to buy a new double electric oven, microwave, dishwasher, freezer and tumble dryer, OH and I have agreed to share a joint present (a tablet) and we got it out early so i could use it while stuck in bed with HG.
Neither of us has bought each other anything else, as agree'd.
Went to MILs today, and asked if we had bought round the present we had bought for ourselves for "grandma" to wrap up, and think it was from her. (she is starting to get muddled with age, and everything stress's her)
Anyway we were supposed to have been told about this plan, but clearly the message hasnt come through.
We were then asked if we could just bring round something that we have got for each other, and of course we cant, as we havent got anything to unwrap from each other as agree'd.
Anyway i left it that sorry, we wernt asked, didnt know, and given that i havent been to a shop at all (through choice) I have no intention of going on christmas eve, either. (Id honestly rather not have anything, and im happy not to have anything, I wouldnt even know what to get anyway!)
Im hoping this doesnt cause any conflict, but really AIBU not drive into town tomorrow, to choose a present for myself to then give to someone else to wrap up and give to me?
(i dont have time to anyway!)