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dogdaysareover · 23/12/2012 19:22

Earlier today dh asked me to make a roast dinner with all the trimmings. Now i am a busy woman at the moment and would really have just prefered something quick so i could continue wrapping etc.Hhowever feel g seasonable i said yes spent ages cooking. when all was plated up and ready dh announced he was off to church and would have his later. i am fuming as we very very rarely sit down together to eat as he works late most nights. also dh in no way a religious man. in 15 years together i have seen him in a church about five e times in total. just feel i was under pressure to make a nice meal which was somewhat thrown back in my face but part of me wonders if i am overeacting. sorry for multitude of spelling and punctuation errors, am on bloody phone.

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TaggieCrimbleBlack · 23/12/2012 19:24

Drink Wine

Give dog the dinner.

LTB.

BeataNoxPotter · 23/12/2012 19:35

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MaureenMLove · 23/12/2012 19:39

Personally, I wouldn't have made a roast dinner, if DH had asked me to, especially today!

Eat yours and leave his on a plate to do what he pleases with it, when he comes back.

MagicHouse · 23/12/2012 19:41

Sounds very odd to me! Is he ok?

AndrewMyrrh · 23/12/2012 19:44

DTF

McChristmasPants2012 · 23/12/2012 19:50

Why did you cook.

TheGrinchWhoStoleTweasels · 23/12/2012 19:52

He went to Church? Hmm

Floralnomad · 23/12/2012 19:55

Why has he gone to church if he doesn't usually?

SantaIAmSoFuckingRock · 23/12/2012 19:56

right you need to tell us the back story.

why does DH order you to cook and you do it even though you dont want to?
what explanation did he have for going to church?
what did he say when you asked why he hadn't mentioned church before you started cooking?
what did he say your dinner was on the table and would stay there til whenever he either ate it or cleared it away?

SantaIAmSoFuckingRock · 23/12/2012 19:58

what did he say when you said "your dinner is on the table"

Fairenuff · 23/12/2012 19:59

Just leave it to dry out in the oven. Next time don't cook a meal at his request.

AnnieLobeseder · 23/12/2012 20:05

So:

A) Why wasn't he helping you to cook?
or
B) wrapping the presents while you cooked?

and
C) did he not even ask if you wanted to go with him?

and
D) was this trip to church mentioned at all before he left?

and finally
E) why the hell did you cook the meal in the first place if you didn't want to?

Chuck dinner in the bin and learn not to be such a doormat. Does he have form for this kind of disrespectful behaviour? Because this whole situation sounds bizarre.

RiaUnderTheMistletoe · 23/12/2012 20:06

I'd be furious. Has he done this sort of thing before?

LucieMay · 23/12/2012 20:22

How odd.

InLoveWithDavidTennant · 23/12/2012 20:26

if dh did that to me... he would not be getting his dinner... it would become mine for the next day!

i would be pissed off!

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