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To think that parents who give their children unusual names are egotistical...

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Crouchendmumoftwo · 22/12/2012 15:36

I live in an area where there are lots of children with unusual first names, one might say contemporary or ever preposterous. Names such a Lux, Brutus, Fire, Ace, Rudy. Most of these children are mild mannered and don't stand out in any particular way. I wonder if the name giving is more to show other parents the: "we are creative and middleclass and bit different". I feel that the parents havent given their children much consideration in later life. A man in his 50s called Brutus doesn't have the same appeal as a small boy. I guess that is why David Bowie's son changed his name from Zowie back to Duncan.

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sweetkitty · 22/12/2012 17:05

I know three little baby boys John, Raymond and Brian, named after their Dads, I think that's egotistical giving your son your name. He will be forever known as Little John.

In our family there were 3 generations of for example John Smith, they were known as Old John, big John and wee John, wee John is over 40 and 6 foot but s still wee John. Wee Johns DW said there was no way there would be another John, in the end they had 2 DDs Smile

When the mothers were asked their bwbies' names they almost apologised "it's after his Dad" give the boy his own name.

everlong · 22/12/2012 17:06

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JenaiMathis · 22/12/2012 17:07

In my pregnancy-induced madness I genuinely considered Skywalker as a middle name. Having said that I sometimes wish we'd used it. It's cool and it transpired that ds was hugely into Star Wars (although not so much these days).

His father vetoed Ruby and Lola (I love the song) as names had
ds been a girl, for sounding like strippers' stage names. Now they're two-a-penny.

MrsFlibble · 22/12/2012 17:08

SweetKitty The name thing also runs in my family too,

Example:
Grandfather: Christopher John Smith
Dad: Michael Christopher John Smith
Brother: Christopher John Smith

Its stops after my brother, as my Dad dont deserver the honour.

SledsImOn · 22/12/2012 17:09

Skywalker is COOL!

StuntGirl · 22/12/2012 17:10

I know several female Sidneys, its not that odd or uncommon Hmm

MrsFlibble · 22/12/2012 17:10

Leia Skywalker, thats cool and possibly the name a Star Wars geek would pick.

JenaiMathis · 22/12/2012 17:12

Thing is I'm not a Star Wars geek at all! I like it but I'm not obsessed, not remotely.

vladthedisorganised · 22/12/2012 17:12

Personally I like the idea of a 'flexible' name. I had a very old-fashioned name growing up (not quite Bunty but it's everywhere in Enid Blyton novels) and it wasn't really 'me'; but I could fudge it a bit to make it something that was more my style. Hardly anyone knows my 'real' name (or DH's) these days.
DD has a name that can be played about with, so what she's known as now might be completely different to the way she uses her name later.

Not quite sure what you can do with Brutus, but maybe his friends will just call him Smeghead as a teenager Grin.

IneedAsockamnesty · 22/12/2012 17:12

Does anybody else have a list of about 8 possibilities but wait to see the baby before final pick?

JenaiMathis · 22/12/2012 17:12

and I think I meant ten-a-penny upthread, didn't I. thick face

5madthings · 22/12/2012 17:16

I have a Rudi, its a fab name.

I also have a Theodore, my theo is 13 and is always the only one in his age group.but its def got more popular over recent years, as has ds2's name.

The name we chose for dd was used less rhan 30times in the year she was born and has stayed at about that figure but i am seeing it mentioned more on baby threads so maybe dp and i have a lnack.of choosing names that then become popular!

We wanted a name that wasnt massively popular but not outlandish, our rudi was maybe going to be a rufus but he def is a rudi!

We get complimented on our childrens names (apart from by mil!) and they all like their names.

I wouldnt say we were middle class! we chose names we liked and we seem to have a 'type' of names that we agreed on. if it was up to mil my children would be called things like gordon, duncan and patrick. Nothing wrong with those names but they are not my taste.

AmberSocks · 22/12/2012 17:17

it was after the river i think,she seems to serious to name him after a womble.she called him orin for short which i think sounds nice.

5madthings · 22/12/2012 17:17

socking we always had a list if a dozen names and never chose until we saw the baby infact ds2, ds4 and dd were a fortnight old befire they had a name.

JamieandtheMagiTorch · 22/12/2012 17:18

Everlong, Emandlu

Me too!

sweetkitty · 22/12/2012 17:19

I do know a Leia (not Skywalker) yes after Star Wars

Emandlu · 22/12/2012 17:19

Links arms with everlong and starts singing....

.... suddenly realises that I've probably had too much Christmas Wine and stops.

Sleds My name has 7 letters too...

sweetkitty · 22/12/2012 17:20

According to mumsnet my DC are

Boring
Reminds them of genitals
Chavvy
Mega common (only know one other)

JamieandtheMagiTorch · 22/12/2012 17:20

MrsFlibble

I have the same name as my mum, grandmother, great grandmother

Less common in girls

But i'm glad I din't have a girl because I'm not sure I would have wanted to use it and not using it would cause a hoo- ha

JamieandtheMagiTorch · 22/12/2012 17:21

My name has 7 letters!

queenrachel · 22/12/2012 17:24

I love the name Lux.

I first read it in the book Virgin Suicides.

There's nothing wrong with having a different name.

AmberSocks · 22/12/2012 17:25

this has made me go over to baby names now,i love baby names,is it just me who hears a nice name and makes mental notes for future bambinos?

JamieandtheMagiTorch · 22/12/2012 17:25

Sleds

Does it end in a?

LtXmasEve · 22/12/2012 17:26

Yasni is pretty good if you are interested in names. I've just discovered that the name 'Jane' ranks at number 37 in the most common first names, The name Ace is at number 2301, Rudy at 1790 and my nieces name is 2964 !

JamieandtheMagiTorch · 22/12/2012 17:26

Amber

I am interested in names, but no more babies so just have fantasy ones...

Asa for a boy

Lyra for a girl , or Anita

< runs away>

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