The story-
Have planned to travel 200 miles to stay with my mum at Christmas. I like to plan in advance and get things sorted. Last week, OH says that his brother and family have arrived in UK from abroad and we are going to see them on our way down to my mum's as it is sort of on the way. I had specifically said to him not to agree to book anywhere so we had to stay overnight-we will have lots of luggage (my laptop as am doing work, ipad (present) and other presents. I don't want to have to unload the car fully, neither do I want to leave them in the car in a public carpark....BUT he has gone and booked a hotel room (without parking-so car will be left on street). I am really stressed, as find traveling stressful anyway without last minute changes. Not to mention the fact that his brother and family are so disorganised (eg coming to britain intending to visit parents in law in remote countryside without driving license so problems hiring car, not having booked accomodation for family of 4 over xmas period etc). I am feeling stressed so probably abu. HELP. Should I just shut up and be grateful. Wrapping presents and packing is really stressing me right now.