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to ask DH to come home early - or am I being needy?

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RevoltingPeasant · 20/12/2012 22:10

Normally DH and I are quite independent: he even goes on short hols by himself, I go off to the gym of an evening and am off to a conference on my own next month, and although we generally know when the other one is coming home, we're not attached at the hip.

I've had a long, rough term, which is ending on Friday. Last night DH announced he was going out to a party on Fri night and would either get home on the last train or possibly stay over. I felt randomly gutted--I just really wanted to have a quiet evening in, have him around, actually remember what he looks like!!

WIBU to ask him to come home around 9 or 10, not too drunk, so we can have a bit of time together? Would you ever ask your partner/ husband to come home early just because you wanted them to?

Or am I just pathetic? :(

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WeWilsonAMerryChristmas · 21/12/2012 00:12

I would ask him to come home rather than staying over, but I wouldn't ask him to come home early, no. I've been the DH in this situation and hate being asked to break existing commitments.

Disclaimer: I would actually kill for a night in alone at this time of year Xmas Blush

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