To be very brief - we live in France and sport/PE is a compulsory curriculum subject. Students are marked out of 20. My DD has never, ever been good at sport but believe me, she does try. The sports are varied eg: handball, basketball. wall climbing, circus skills, athletics, swimming, gym, football, hockey, orienteering etc.. However every year since she started senior school (10 years old - she is now 15) she has had the lowest marks of her class. When I say lowest she has never got beyond double-figures. Today we received a report and she had received 3/20. The lowest mark she has ever received and probably the lowest given out! She is not despondent about her marks or her ability in sport. However she is getting upset because her marks do not appear to correlate to the effort she is putting in. For the past five years she appears to have been marked on her sport's ability not on the effort she puts in to improving her ability. She is naturally very cautious so things like climbing up the climbing wall or diving into a pool are (for her) big achievements - but there seems to be no "reward" for the efforts she's making. DD also has some underlying health issues which make PE difficult - which we have told the school about, but not in great detail. Therefore AIBU in writing to the school and asking them to mark her accordingly (ie: not on ability but effort) or as DH and DD says leave it and just accept that this is the way things are. If it helps the marks she receives for PE affect her overall average and general academic score.