As I medical receptionist I fully accept that I have made a choice to be "front line" and I do understand that I am in the firing line when the service you receive is not satisfactory, especially when you are feeling ill ,are worried about loved ones and probably feeling particularly vulnerable.
But please remember I do not make the rules,I do not decide how the appointments system is run and I can assure you when I am asking for more information about your condition,its not because I'm nosey or even because I want to have a good old gossip,believe it or not its actually so I can Try and justify fitting you in to an already over booked clinic,you know the one,the one where you're kept waiting for 50mins over your appointment time and you need to pick the kids up from school..............
I apologise for the fact that appointments are running late,but swearing at me and blaming me although justified,really isn't going to get you anywhere - the only thing that its going to achieve is that my time is taken up dealing with your complaint, instead of getting on the the 1001 other things NHS bureaucracy demands I deal with................
I'm really sorry that you didn't receive your long awaited letter,but unfortunately I cannot be responsible for you not informing us that you moved house 3 months ago and although I can sympathise,the fact that Royal mail manage to loose letters really is beyond my control.
I apologise that the NHS sometimes gets it wrong and lets you down,but please remember there are some things that are even beyond the control of "a control freak".