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Parking outside school

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snowman1 · 20/12/2012 10:38

I live in a house near a school school. This morning, a person parked over my drive. He then left the car and took about 8 kids down to the school (they work as a team of childminders).

When he came back I asked him not to block the drive. He said sorry, he'd only be a minute and would move. I said no, I can't have that, I need access to my drive and I didn't want to see his van blocking me in again. I was not aggressive but would probably use the word assertive, I didn't raise my voice. I usually hate confrontation but I had an immunisation appointment for my baby at the doctors and genuinely needed to go.

I guess what has made me nervous about this is that a week or two ago, my friend rang me to take her to an accident where her husband was found unconcious with his car wrapped around a tree and she needed my help to give her a lift to follow the ambulance. The call came at 255. Had it been the day before, there would have been a car blocking my drive!

This is about the third instance in as many weeks, I have complained to the school who were sympathetic and advise I need to take photos and post it on some website which is what they have agreed to do at the recent PTA.

I guess I am posting cause I am having a bit of a bad time with a 12 week old and a 2 year old and have for some reason let this completely ruin my day so far. Should I have just let it slide and accept it as part of living next to a school?

OP posts:
Purple2012 · 20/12/2012 13:38

Also , dont say you can't get out if you had needed to. Say you NEED to get out and are being stopped from doing so.

lovelyladuree · 20/12/2012 14:16

Right, this is something you can do right now. Write out this in Word: 'Parking across our drive costs £1 per minute. Your custom has been recorded on CCTV. Kindly put money through the door on your return to your vehicle. No liability for damage, loss of life/limb etc accepted by property owner'.
I put this flyer on every car who parked across our drive for a week. No more problems after a week. That was two years ago.

gordyslovesheep · 20/12/2012 14:35

YANBU parents should park legally and not block your drive

like I did today - only to come back to find the owner of the house I was parked outside of (not blocking their drive at all) had driven his white van so close to the back of my I was blocked in!

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