Husbands

[thismummyneedssleep]

Someone please remind me what they are for exactly? I mean really? 3 years and 2 months on DH still bemoans the fact his life is over, I do nothing all day but lux it up like ladies who lunch, look shabby and don't perform the wifely duties like a nubile waif.....mmm think there is a clue in there somewhere maybe that I am NOT lunching and being indulgent. driving me more insane than a tantruming toddler....grrrr

Not my husband. You speak for your own.

btw...this is not how it's meant to be, in case you needed reminding of that

Mine is lovely. Mine is the light of my life.

Sounds kinetic great catch!

Kinetic?

Like a

Maybe you should LTB?

mines not like that,you need a new one,yours must be broken..

Or at least send him away to be reconditioned :)

Sorry, mine's ace.

I believe he is in need of remedial training.

Why have you let him act like this for so long? I too suggest leaving the bastard.
Only for a weekend break of long lunches and living it up . Leave it to the tantruming toddler to show him the error of his ways

Had mine for fifteen years so far. He is lovely. My best friend who treats me with love, respect and affection. I hate posts which generalise about men/husbands. If you have a problem with yours, post in Relationships. But don't assume all men are like your husband.

Spiders

Nuff said.

Mine is a star, and does just as much (if not more) around the house as I do, has a brilliant relationship with the dcs, and is an all round lovely bloke.

Sorry that you got a defective one - did you keep the receipt?

and you had no clue at all what he was like before you married him?

thismummyneedsslep I know what you mean, mine hints at this sometimes, last time he did it, I bought myself a bunch of flowers and some expensive perfume from him. Every time he pisses you off, treat yourself

Perhaps this should be posted in Relationships?

Your relationship is not of any benefit to you and sounds abusive. I'm guessing you know this already, though.

I too recommend having some time on your own, and let him deal with your child.

I made my DH do a day a week while I went to work - did wonders

Made your DH do this??
I've never had to go this far, DH here is now a much better cook, patient with the DTs and has never been made to do anything with them.

My DH isn't like that. He does more in the house than me, does 90% of school drop offs/ASC pick ups and has never told me I look "shabby"

You know this isn't right, don't you?

Thanks for your comments and yes I think I do know its not healthy and action needs to be taken. Never expected this kind of outcome but there we are.

Thanks mners.

Think yours is broken! I'm on day 3 of being in bed ill and he's been brilliant looking after me.

Yours is a dud I'm afraid. If any of the above comments were made by my dh except in the course of a very heated argument, he would be standing outside the front door with a bag in his hand in fairly short order!

I agree with pps, its not all Husbands, its yours! I have an amazing one (boasty I know).

If my DH ever said/implied any of the above stuff about me I would be mightily pissed off.

He is defective. There are much better ones out there.

I agree with the idea that you need to get away, for a night or two and leave him with the childcare....he'll change his tune

That's not normal OP, that sounds like an ex-husband. My dh is fab, my life is infinitely better for having him in it (I wouldn't bother to have a dh otherwise, they are optional you know)!