I can take it if I am - genuine question, really not sure if he's out of order, or I'm just odd!
I wanted to buy a van to convert as a camper - and husband knew I was working really hard to pay off credit card (ebaying etc) because I would "allow" myself to but it until that was done.
Things that have annoyed me:
(1) him telling my friends whilst we were talking about it that I was trying to pay off credit card. Now, there's no shame in having a cc balance, and certainly not in pushing to pay it off. But you know what? I don't want all my friends to have even that level of info about my finances unless I tell them.
(2) I got the van, and paid a ridiculous amount of money for new tyres. Eye watering. It has massive alloys, but I had hoped the tyres were low rather than illegal - I hadn't expected to buy 4 at once! His nephew came over "just heard your tyres were £££ - ouch!". I think I'm being a bit over sensitive on this one, partly cos of (1)! I just think it's my business to tell people if I want to. I don't want people making judgements about my money, what I've got, how I spend it... Tbh, I felt a bit of an idiot spending that much on tyres. Tyres, FFS!
So I kind of think IABU to (2), but not to (1).
I don't know... How would you feel about your husband telling your friends you had a credit card that needed to be paid off?
And yeah - it's very much a minor problem :0)