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AIBU to think it is not acceptable for a year 9 boy to do this?

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RudolphsNoseInMyXmasStocking · 17/12/2012 15:00

My year 9 daughter is walking back to school after a practice Duke of Edinburgh walk. One of the lads walking with/near here as I drove past has put his fingers up in a V and licked between them in what I assume to be a crude attempt at expressing oral sex.

Is it just me, or is that vile?

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RyleDup · 17/12/2012 15:01

Vile.

HairyGrotter · 17/12/2012 15:01

YANBU...utterly vile and disgusting behaviour!! Toward anyone let alone a bloody child!!

CailinDana · 17/12/2012 15:01

Eh? Are you expecting people to say "Oh no that's hilarious"? Of course it's vile. I'm not sure why you're even asking.

ImperialBlether · 17/12/2012 15:01

Do you know the boy? If so, report him to the school.

RudolphsNoseInMyXmasStocking · 17/12/2012 15:01

(Btw, it was done specifically at me - and he knows I am dd3's mum)

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DozyDuck · 17/12/2012 15:15

He probably doesn't know exactly what it means [hopeful] but will know it's rude.

Kids at my DSs school do that a lot.

Cozy9 · 17/12/2012 15:17

I am fairly sure that a 14 year old boy knows what it means.

DozyDuck · 17/12/2012 15:18

Oh year 9! I read 9 years old! Sorry!

peaceandlovebunny · 17/12/2012 15:20

vile. i read 9 years old too. and i wasn't surprised. things like that go on at primary school.

MikeOxardInTheSnow · 17/12/2012 15:24

I'd hope he doesn't know what it means. My friend's mum used to do this to random fellow road users as a kind of road rage thing. Until my friend told her what it meant. Now that was hilarious!

DozyDuck · 17/12/2012 15:28

Oh mike that's so funny! My sister used to say rude words and my mum used to describe in graphic detail exactly what they meant right in front of all her mates... She ever said them again.

RudolphsNoseInMyXmasStocking · 17/12/2012 15:28

I went and had a word with the Head. If I can extract a name out of my daughter, Head will make him apologise, although if the lad can make gestures like that without a second thought, I doubt making an apology will have much effect on his future behaviour. more likely to just take the piss out of dd3 unfortunately. Gah - I know some teens can be horrible but it's turning me into a right grumpy old woman.

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ll31 · 17/12/2012 15:36

not sure i'd have been as upset as you tbh, i'm trying to imagine myself reporting
a teen making a rude gesture and cant!

cuteboots · 17/12/2012 15:42

unfortunately I agree with peaceandlovebunny. Ive had to pull my son up a few times recently for stuff hes repeating .

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