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...to be concerned about this breach of confidentiality?

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donteatthefiggypudding · 16/12/2012 11:06

I met a HV socially last night, and in the course of our conversation she told me and another mum (also a HV) that a member of staff at our DC's school was 'on her books', and she explained why (a health issue).
I'm really not happy to now know something about an individual that I have no right to know, but i don't want to formally report this HV. I was thinking about contacting the department and complaining in a general kind of way, asking perhaps if they could reiterate the importance of confidentiality to their staff.
WWYD?

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DeepPurple · 16/12/2012 11:11

Are you a HV? Just with you saying another mum also a HV. If you are then I don't think she has breached anything. If you aren't then really you need to report it.

donteatthefiggypudding · 16/12/2012 11:14

no, i'm not a HV. I'm actually a nurse, but the woman didn't know WHO I was when she said this.

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AllSnowballsAndNoKnickers · 16/12/2012 11:15

I'd have said something at the time actually. Why didn't you?

takataka · 16/12/2012 11:18

I think you should have told the HV who disclosed the information, last night

takataka · 16/12/2012 11:18

I think you should have told the HV who disclosed the information, last night

Brycie · 16/12/2012 11:19

Why don't you phone her up and tell her that she shouldn't have told you that information.

What she did is very very bad indeed.

donteatthefiggypudding · 16/12/2012 11:31

yes, point taken that i maybe should have brought it up at the time. i simply gave no response, and neither did the other HV.
I cant phone the woman, Brycie - i had never met her before and am very unlikely to ever again!

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SophisticatedFury · 16/12/2012 11:42

That's bang out of order. I feel for the poor woman who's information she devulged. That's not very professional at all.

ProtegeMoi · 16/12/2012 11:57

Definately needs reporting and you should have told her.

So out of order to tell people things like that!

slhilly · 16/12/2012 11:58

You can go to the NMC or her employer. I would if I were you.

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