To think my DH takes advantage?

[Jamandcheese]

I've been married now for over 4 years. Like all marriages it's had it's good and bad times. But today I'm fecked off at DH.

He went out on his work Xmas meal. We have had many problems as a result of hin drinking too much; me not being able to contact him, coming home at 5/6am, getting caught drink driving and cheating on me with a prostitute.

We agreed to work through these together. And he promises me to drink sensibly. But he doesn't. Today his colleague rang to say they put him in a taxi but he jumpe out. So she stayed with him while I drove 40 mins into the city in the middle of the night with a 6 month and 2 year old.

I feel like he doesn't care or respect me when he does this. I just needed to rant

Somehow in my first post I completely missed the part about sleeping with a prostitute and drunk driving.

And you have a 6 month old !? I'm assuming until the new baby arrived he was the most wonderful amazing man on the planet?? Hmmm.

I think you have to leave him. No question. And have an std check as well. Sorry to be so blunt but if he's up to all sorts it's best to be safe.

I cannot believe you got up, got the kids up, and drove to collect him. And I'm guessing he was rolling drunk in the car and a pita when you got him home. Yo must have a very low opinion of yourself to put up with this crap and put your dc through it.
I would have left him to it. I would have told his co worker I was at one with dc and I couldn't leave. He coud have slept in the gutter.

No doubt he will be sorry until the next time. Can you call al- anon for families to hear what your future holds? Btw, I suggest you and him get tested for std, by then how can you be sure he isn t still doin it? Spending family money on prostitutes and drink. You don't deserve that.