Basically for the last two weeks, plans had been arranged for me and my husband to take dd and my neice to watch rise of the guardians. Anyway yesterday my sister decided to tell me that her daughter (my neice) doesn't want to watch the film anymore because she doesn't like the look of a certain character in there, eventhough my neice has seen the trailers of this animation so many times, anyway she changed her mind and that was fine. So I basically arranged for my other nephew to go instead, plans were all made. This evening my sister rings and says that her daughter (neice) wants to go now. I agreed at first but then rang her later on and said forget, that i wasn't going cinema anymore and that the 3 kids can have a playover instead. My nephew had already seen this animation last week anyway. The thing is my sister did say that she would pay for her daughter, but I just couldn't take her money and not pay for my neice but pay for nephew. We are trying to cut back on things. Basically my brother in law got really funny with me, and made me feel guilty that i had changed my mind because there daughter was coming. Now that is true, but since she wasn't bothered about watching the film, i thought what's the point in wasting money, i will just take my daughter another day. I am sitting here feeling really hurt and bad abot the situation.