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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To be late to school?

33 replies

FauxFox · 14/12/2012 08:46

DD is a pain to get ready every. single. morning. I have to cajole, shout, remind, time etc and i'm done.

I'm tired, it's pissing with rain, I don't care anymore!

We should have got in the car 10 mins ago.

She is in Year 3 (7 y.o) and this will be our first time in the late book.

We will go but we will be late - AIBU?

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MrsFlibble · 14/12/2012 10:13

manicinsomniac It does, since mummy will stand at front door wide open ready to usher her out, and since its freezing, you'd be amazed at how she speeds up Grin

BluelightsAndSirens · 14/12/2012 10:17

If this is the first time she has been in the late book I would tell her she needs to write a letter for Monday morning to the head teacher apologising for being late, delaying the start of the school day and to make a list of things DD think she could do to make herself quicker in the mornings.

My last post reads a bit smug Blush it's not an easy thing to do and DD1 is the slowest out of all of us although she is always ready on time.

DD2 (8) has her own routine including breakfast done and dusted in 10 minutes, so funny to watch her whizz about Grin DD3 is still in training as she is in reception but I do think being organised the day before is the best way to do it, we don't spend time looking for things that way.

Good luck.

LauraShigihara · 14/12/2012 10:21

Does she need breakfast first? I would never get any of mine to dress first - they have breakfast and slowly wake up with a carbohydrate boost and dress afterwards when they felt a bit more lively.

FrustratedSycamoreSnowflake · 14/12/2012 11:49

fauxfox do you have a visual schedule for ds for the mornings? Would dd benefit from something like that? Like a board with pictures (or reminder words) of everything she needs to do that she can take off or turn over when she has done the task? Might help to keep her on track.

FirstPersonPlural · 14/12/2012 11:58

We also have breakfast first in our house and I think it helps keep everyone on track. That, and we have a 'race' to see who's fastest at getting dressed - kids vs parent. A little healthy competition always sparks them into gear! Wink

FirstPersonPlural · 14/12/2012 12:00

We also have breakfast first at our house and I think it helps keep everyone on track.

That, and we have a 'race' to see who's fastest at getting dressed - kids vs parent. A little healthy competition always sparks them into gear! Wink

FirstPersonPlural · 14/12/2012 12:00

Oops - sorry for the double post (silly phone)

Rooble · 14/12/2012 12:06

Same here: we have breakfast first, dress, clean teeth etc then DS (5yo) is allowed to watch TV until we leave. If he's not ready there's no TV. May be worth having an incentive (other than the opportunity to go to school) for getting ready efficiently?

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