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Telling OW husband

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bitterorange · 12/12/2012 18:35

A few month ago DH left his job. One woman he worked with was very upset with him for leaving. DH told me that she had vowed never to talk to him again as she was so hurt. My feeling was she had feelings for him, hence her upset.

His new job took him away from this woman. He did however meet her for a night out with some other colleagues a couple of months later. After that night I saw a text conversation which upset me a bit, I can't remember the full details but it seemed a bit over friendly.

I was looking through DH's email today and saw that he had copied and pasted an exchange between the two of them into an email which he forwarded to himself. The jist of it seems to be that he doesn't want to talk to her and she feels like a fool. I am going to admit to DH I saw his email and ask him what has happened.

I'm not sure how much he will tell me. This women works with her husband so I can easily find his details, wibu to forward the message to him and ask if he knows what's been going on.

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waltermittymistletoe · 13/12/2012 09:20

Did he say why he didnt tell you about it?!

BeckAndCallWithBoughsOfHolly · 13/12/2012 09:27

It sounds to me like your DH is being straight up about this - he wouldn't necessarily have suspected her of having feelings for him and a lot of blokes are pretty oblivious to what look to us like strong signals.

Sounds like your DH did all the right things at the right time and even, probably, wanted to forget about what he saw as nothing worth mentioning without involving you at all. Sounds like a decent bloke. Glad it's all OK.

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