to think i should go put sexy underwear on before sex with my husband?

[Buddhagirl]

I don't go to the toilet and slip into something sexy and fix my hair and make up before sex.

Anyone else always do this? I'm becoming paranoid that its "what proper women do".

I do if it's a "special" night

Otherwise faded Motorhead t-shirt and greying pants it is

Doesn't seem to bother DH

i love dressing up for him. I dont do it all the time, but I do quite often. I quite like a little bit of roleplay here and there and mood setting, and have different things i will wear. He loves it and appreciates it, although hes quite happy if I dont too. Hes just as keen if im in my pyjamas, but its for both of us, not just for him. I feel extra sexy if i dress up a bit

I do remember buy a "Little red riding hood" outfit from Leg Avenue once, slinked into the bedroom and husked "My what a big..........."

DH fell on the floor crying with laughter

Cat girl are you me?

I sometimes even wear his boxers to bed!

In all honesty it matters not a fuck what I wear he rips it all off!

I did put him off his stride one night when I had a nice matching set on. He complemented it and I said 'thanks, your mum bought me then, she's got the same set'.

Apparently that's not what he wanted to hear!

that's brilliant about the mum pants

Them not then!

I tried this a few times and they were just ripped off so I thought what the hell is the point? Given up, stick with nakedness now.

I think some men do appreciate the wrapping, others don't!

No way, if dh is lucky enough to his wicked way with me then he has to take me as he finds me

Sometimes yes as dh does like sexy undies/outfits & don't mind them myself , not just for a quickie though

It takes about 30 seconds to put on a pair of sexy undies. A person who thinks that is too much effort frankly doesn't deserve to get any.

When we think of the effort we put in in the beginning, it does seem a bit cuntish to have hair round yer tits, wiry ones on yer chin and a growth that would see sigourney weaver worrying about her lot having problems?!

I think its women feeling like they've got a prize that any man should be elated to receive if she should be generous enough to give it. doesn't sound like they get much out of it themself, if the idea of any preparation is a hassle.

Mrskeith

I wear what i think looks nice/sexy/matching every day, mostly because if i don't i feel like what 's the point making an effort with your other clothes if you don't look good the whole way through the layers? This is rather to satisfy my strange ideas than a man though, and have caused much amusement to other female friends in the past...

Having had an ex-p who didn't care or notice my underwear though and(more in a lack of sex drive way than a rip-it-off way,) i must say i prefer that dh does comment favourably.

Also would be interested in the lesbian view on this, as if i was with an other woman I'd definitely prefer her to wear nice things. Maybe women are more aesthetically minded?

I wear a white bra with white knickers every day. I have one black and wine corset which would just about fit but is in no way flattering.

I don't live with my DP, I stay at his (parents) house Friday & Saturday nights most weeks. On a Friday I'll wear matching underwear, a thong maybe, don't bother with make up never have done and after travelling 2 hours by public transport my hair is a mess despite making it look nice before I leave my house. Come Saturday, sometimes I'll wear a thong, most times I don't bother.