I posted on here the other day about my Fiance ending our relationship. I need serious help.

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I have gotten to the point now where i do not enjoy anything, absolutely anything. I need him in my life.

I am pregnant with his child and i have his 14 month old aswell.

I met up with him today to discuss things and we couldnt agree on most of the stuff we talked about to do with our son, e.g. Child support, Contact etc. He didnt stay long as he had to leave so i couldnt tell him everything that i wanted to.

I have asked him to meet me again and he has text me that he doesnt want to as he never wants to see me again only to see his son, I am heartbroken beyond repair; I want to tell him how i feel and discuss everything that is going to happen between us for mine, our son and our babys sake and for my bit of closure.

AIBU with that?

Oh little bump, you sound so much like myself all those years ago.

This may sound blunt but I only say it because its what people told me when I went through it, you need to accept what he is saying about not changing his mind. I went through hell and back coming to that conclusion with my ex and caused myself endless extra heartache by not just accepting that it was over and he wasn't coming back.

Actually, my ex did want me back but only when I stopped chasing him and had begun to move on (not with a new man or anything, just stopped begging him to come back). In hindsight its not surprising really. I'd become needy, desperate and whiney (although I had a good excise being cheated on and dumped whilst pregnant). Of course he didn't want me in that state while he had a younger, fun and fancy free ow to spend his time with.

You are worth so much more than this, xx.