Dh and i are returning to my country of birth with our 2 year old and 5 month old for a 4 week holiday in feb. While we are there my 2 year old turns 3. My dh suggested we have a party here before we go so his family still get to celebrate. I agree that doing something with his family (who are lovely btw) is a good idea but would prefer to do it when we get back. My sister has never met my children and mum and dad haven't seen 2 yo since she was a tiny baby and i want her to have the main celebration with my family. Am i being silly?