ExP has been in poor health for some time and a consequence of this is deteriorating eyesight.
The DDS have told me that he has told them his eyes are getting worse.
A few months ago he wrote off his car.
He now wants to drive them around 400miles to visit his relations at Xmas.
I am happy for them to visit the relatives and to be with him, but I have requested proof from an optician that he is safe to drive. He of course, is calling me everything bad under the sun and threatening legal action. AIBU?