To think that if you ask for advice, you shouldn't get all pissed off if someone says something you don't like...

[BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability]

And then the fucking mods banned me and deleted all my perfectly reasonable comments. So now this poster thinks even more that she is in the right.

It was on the EmmasDiary facebook page yes, I know... I stated that her stance was offensive to me (she thinks her exH isnt safe to look after her kids as he is depressed) and I was jumped on and called an idiot (spelt wrong, ha). She "lolled" at my depression, so I childish, I know! said I thought it was hysterical that she had PND, and somewhat ironic given that she wont let H see his own kids.

Sigh. Why do I do it...

Feel free to all tell me IAB a cunt.

Now I am completely 'outed' and I like this name change :(

What part of I have only encourgaed him to see them dont you understand?

Umm... Encourgaed...?

I'm happy with that gavel. I know I'm NBU to be annoyed, and that was why I posted :)
plus my ipad needs to be plugged in

cheeky do you mean the "would have/would of" pic? I have no idea who posted that

As the status has been deleted I don't think a name change is necessary - I've forgotten the names of the folk on there already!

Oh no, I missed the death of it! I may have gone back to bed
What happened?

I missed it too

I was out and toddler group but my mate says it was just more of the same.

Absolutely agree with Mintyy Christmaspants.

Embarrassed by, and for, those so excited about a Person Who's Wrong On The Internet.

I would love to be able to tell you, op, that youre very odd to think anyone gives a shit about your little disagreement...but clearly id be wrong

However i think you may all be better suited to the Emmas whotsit facebook thingy after all...

This page is popular with new mums, its kind of like MN or netmums. I think it is actually very important to query that they are encouraging myths about depression, which was what my actual point was. Do you disagree with that Foosa? Do you think that advice such as mine, which was not offensive but just disagreed with her, should be deleted? By a prominent website for new mums, many of whom will suffer from PND?

There's never any evidence based advice though, it's all people's personal opinions. Sometimes the advice given is just dangerous.

Can someone link me to this shite, sorry site I mean site...I'm using a BT hotspot and my laptop keeps failing me? Thank you

Anyway she kept changing her story. First she said he wanted access but she didn't want him to have it unsupervised, then she said he asked for her to be there. Then she said he wasn't interested in seeing his DC's.
I was very tempted to tell her to post on MN as she would have maybe had a wider opinion but it would have been like throwing a sheep to the wolves. She was only interested in the answers of people that were advising her how to get her x out of her DC's lives by pre-occupying them with other stuff. Was very sad to think that some people thought it was a good idea for the children to forget who their DD is :(

There was a link on page 2 of this thread.

The link is still there, but her whole post has gone poof now, possibly because my lone voice of reason wasn't so lone any more

Ah you got us nest of vipers involved.

Oh page 2. I am a very old mumsnetter I don't do pages (not a great fan of changes) I just have one huge page, I shall scroll more carefully

Oh has it gone... Okay I may have to go walk the dog...

There was a post on there a few months ago. A women thought her waters had broken at 25 weeks and even her mw just advised using a pad for a few days and seeing what happened.

Wtf nooo ive had pprom twice if the waters have broken you need to go to hospital and have some steroids for the lungs and some abs incase of infection ffs

I get angry about people perpetuating dangerous myths about mental health problems, if that makes me odd, so be it Foosa.

Gutted it's gone. I had more to say.

and as per usual I've outed myself hah.