well, not to complain, but to say i wasn't happy?
dds teacher told me she thought dd should be in a gymnastics club of some kind when i went to parents eve. i said oh really? i will look into it.
then at pick up from after school club, same teacher said again, have you looked into gymnastics? she would be good. again i said, thanks, i have been thinking about it.
then on thursday dd comes out of school, really hyper, with a not from the ta, all the details of the club her own dd goes to, the times, dates, costs and number of the organiser, along with the note that she has already told the instructor to expect a call from me, and she has asked if there is a space, which there is.
i thought it was over stepping the mark, dd thought that meant it was a forgone conclusion. it was not!
dd has problems with her joints, and i was waiting to speak to the hosp at her next app to see if gym would be ok for her or not.
i hadnt told her that i was unsure she could do it or not, i didnt want to tell her yes or no before i checked it out.
so i spoke to the teacher and said i wanted the matter dropped. what my dd does or does not attend outside of school is not their concern. and that i thoguth they needed to drop it. she didnt look pleased, said she thought dd deserved the chance.
on friday the teacher said to dd that it was a shame that she wasnt allowed to do gymnastics.
in my mind, its not that ive said no, but i wont say yes till i know the effect on her health!
so was i U? or shuld i pull them up on bringing it up with dd again?