DS 1 aged 4 is at nursery attached to excellent local London school, has settled in well and formed good attachments to lovely teachers and classmates.
2 weeks ago he mentioned that a toy got broke, it was a toy belonging to his key workers DD when I asked if she was cross it was broken he said no, she said when would look at the camera when they went home and know who did it, I quizzed a bit on what camera etc but didn't get much info he had no idea where it was or couldn't describe it.
Last night, out of the blue, he asked if his class teacher had talked to me about him, when I said no and asked why, the same story came out but regarding a different incident, another toy broke, another threat that teachers would look at camera and talk to all their parent and find out who it was, and they were just waiting for that person to say sorry. DS was upset and worried, I gently talked it through i.e did he break it - NO, did he know who did - NO. he continued to be upset saying we have to find out who did it so the teachers know.
This has unnereved me quite a bit and I'm sure its not normal, buts he's my first DC in education so I have no idea of tactics etc. It just seems a totally inappropriate way of dealing with bad behaviour from 3/4 year olds?
Looking for some input - normal and shut up? or does it need bringing up with school?