Fabsmum, they may deserve one, but round here they simply aren't going to get one!
So what should we do, accept our powerlessness and agree with the system writing of our children, or give all and every possible chances at helping them a go?
Sorry but your 'McStudy' teen may actually stand a chance of reaching the parts some schools fail to bother trying to, and they're no worse than weak Saturday school's.
In your world a caring parent has the availability and resources to enrich and provide, side by side. not quite the world of a stressed lone parent working as a night cleaner and getting them dropped off for a bit of extra help, while she tries to care for a dependant adult and get other things done.
I feel you're a bit unaware of who these places are for, and quick to think them useless when you don't seem to understand the people they're catering for.
It's a system that for many of my friends is all they can manage to do. They have neither the time, education or money to do better, but their children are gaining more from being there, and the regular praise and confidence raising than not, and some of those teens are more able at explaining concepts than you're giving credit for. The same's true of Kumon, often sneered at on here but a very valuable but overpriced resource for some families.
For what it's worth my son My D/S was written of as having potentially "reached the limits of his learning abilities" years ago, despite being bright, and I had to either accept him labelled uneducateable or try and learn how to educate him myself, there is no 'extra skilled support' on offer here, they're just pronounced non exam material.
I've thrown up everything to go for the later and learnt a lot from when I started, but very few of my friends feel they could, or cope with social attitudes, and it's easy to be an educated parent with resources saying it's all so easy, but it really isn't for everyone.
I'm not defending these places as brilliant, and I know I'll be in a minority to defend them at all, but I am saying don't please don't sneer and write them of as 'McStudy' so quickly, when they are a better resource than nothing, and an advance on what many have been using, for some.
I have to vanish (to try and 'teach' unpaid, an SEN child that there's no 'extra skilled support' for) but maybe those who feel strongly against these places, could campaign for higher quality educational resources to be available for those of us who want more for our kids than we can afford, or the state can or will allocate us?