to think it's weird that a parent hangs about my child's nursery all the time?

[Christmas78]

I should start by saying I know I'm paranoid. I just don't know if I'm being completely paranoid this time!

Regularly when I pick up my baby there is this one father sitting around in the baby room at the nursery chatting to the girls who work there. He's a parent of one of the older babies so he's got a right to be there. I just don't get why he's there all the time! I pick my DS up at different times of the day as I work from home so it's definitely not just a one off. And why does he hang around like it's his sitting room or a coffee shop?

My issues are 1) the girls spend all their time bantering with him when I feel they should be focussing on the babies and 2) I just find it a bit weird that he's around my child so often and not a carer. I mean, I'm tempted to ask if they've blimming CRB checked him.

stop sticking your tongue out at my fanjo raspberry you filthy beast

That's not the primmest thing I have ever heard

i suspect maybe the thread is beyond help

Fanjo and Raspberry

I hope you are satisfied that you seem to have hijacked this thread and distracted people from what Christmas was posting about. I appreciate that you have your opinions but a little kindness and understanding of her situation would'nt go amiss . As has been said upthread, I would speak to the people at the nursery and just check with them who this guy is as it may be perfectly harmless.

I said more than 24 hours ago that I was glad the OP had made her decision to contact nursery and it seemed resolved so you can stop the passive aggressive shit stirring now.

Me to OP

"FanjoForTheMammariesTue 13-Nov-12 12:03:47

glad you have your answer then "

And THAT wasn't sarcastic was it?

Actually it wasn't. Sorry to disappoint

Dont generally grin when being sarky, prefer to

Fanjo and Raspberry

I'm sorry if either of you thought I was being passive agressive or patronising but after reading all the various threads I noticed that from 14th Nov 16.12 there were 12 threads between you too that had nothing to do with what the OP had been talking about and various posters commenting on . I just felt rather sad that you felt you could both hijack the thread in that way.

The OP had not posted on the thread for 24 hours

this will probably unleash another session of fanjo kicking

yes, please don't stare at my fanjo

oops. my bad. The poor OP

Fanjo and Raspberry

I want to see you in my office at 9.20 sharp. I hope you are thoroughly ashamed of your behaviour.

Mrs Marriott