I met my partner 8 years ago, the first few months we went out I was thrown into his close family circle ( I being young and very shy, First BF). Suddenly MIL took a dislike to me and sent me vile texts telling me to never come near the house again. She came into my work shouted at me infront of customers, would ring from withheld number, show up to my work loads and give me dirty looks. The times she text me I got so annoyed I actually texted back, basically standing up for myself.
Her and her DD both ganged up on me. So for near 2 years this went on ( was very hard as during that time my BF lived at home with them, and my DM died). Finaly once the birth of her DD's DC came along she sent me a text apologisng for everything (baring in mind id changed my number 3 times), i decided to be the bigger person and sort it and forgive her. 4 years passed they were ok in terms of our relationship. We all lost weight together, however they seemed unhappy for me losing more and getting to my goal.
Over the years they have always got their little digs in at me, always putting me down, and trying to get my BF away from me. They have always seemed jealous, I dont know why as i a normal nice giirl and they are older woman. Then suddenly they have turned on me again using her DC as a weapon as they know i love her. Ive been called vile names of which are untrue which they said over the phone to my BF ( although this time i have not commented back i have ignored it). They have now also not talked to him for 2 months now over me. I havent done anything, I dont say bad things about them, im nice to them. Could this all be over jealously.
Could someone please help me understand this situation. I am intending on marrying this man and having children with him, we both agree. I dont want to have to deal with this my whole life. They are totally unreasonable and talking to them wont work.