I am going to visit my mum in hospital tonight, its over an hour away so ill be gone a while. My dp is working nights. My dad is going to have ds ( they are no longer together so he wont be visiting ) but obviously ds has school in the morning. I was going to give him a key so he could bring ds back at 7 and get him into bed then he would only need to sit here until i get back between half eight and half nine. Jus spoken to him and he says no, if ds goes to him then he sleeps there all night . He wont keep him awake till i get back because he says its not fair on him but doesnt have any breakfast stuff ( whole other thread - he isnt working so has no food in at all and no heating on) or his school things.
Im really grateful that hes watching him for me so i can visit but i have been so upset every night ive come back from the hospital. im dreading coming home to an empty house and not seeing ds at all since 9am. We live really close to each other probably 5 minute walk at most. Aibu to bring ds home at 9pm :( or just to wish that he would come and sit with him