Our girls are members of our local scout group. DD1 a Scout, DD2 a beaver.
DH is an assistant scout leader, I help every week at beavers. We've helped refurbish our scout hut, DH does the accounts for the scout troop, we help at activity days, we help at camps, we're involved in the back office type stuff with running the troop. We both give a fair amount of time.
On Sunday afternoon I received an email asking us to go and help shift some furniture around. I didn't check my emails on Sunday so didn't read it until Monday morning.
Sent an apology to say sorry, only just got message.
In response, this morning, I got a massive rant about how our group leader has to do everything himself, no one ever helps, he's going to quit, he's fed up, he hopes i enjoyed my 'lazy' sunday, etc, etc, etc
Now, I understand he's annoyed, but I feel we do more than our fair share. No other parents put as much time into helping (most dump and run). I spent weeks helping paint and sand down rusty beams, clean and sort the hall. I've got a million things I'd rather be doing on a Friday night other than sitting in a hall with 30 rampaging kids, so I'm feeling a bit 'well, fuck you' to be honest.
We're all volunteers, I only have so many hours in a day and I genuinely didn't see the email until yesterday.