Back story my DD who is now 17 has always been unruly doing things her own way, being very strong willed, I have tried to rein her in god knows I have tried,she has always stolen off me either fags or money, I have in the past flown at her and hit her I am not proud of that I deeply regret it, she has been to CAMHS and she told them what they wanted to hear. She has seen a child psychologist who was convinced she had OCD until I made her tell the truth and he said she was troubled due to her mixed up foster family,she told him we were her foster family and her real family were dead apparently her 'real' family were killed in a car crash, I am here alive and well.
She regularly runs away from home not because of abuse or anything because we have found out she is nicking money for drugs or she is taking drugs,so we ground her and she becomes the most sweetest girl on the planet, now fast forward to tonight she sneaked out unsuccessfully as we heard her go out but we have no clue where she is, she lost her phone not long back so she has no phone, my DH is saying leave her to it lock the door I am saying she is my daughter and to wait up till she is in, so who is being unreasonable me for staying up, my DH for going to bed or my DD for going out with a curfew of 10.30pm?
I suspect it might be me