To fake an orgasm everytime I have sex with my DH?

[Screamfromtherooftops]

My DH has a really low sex drive so when we have it it is a nice surprise.

I have never had an orgasm by my husband since we have been together 6 frustrating years

He also is not good at sex at all and has a very small penis. Everytime we have sex I have to fake an orgasm, I feel like I need to do this because I hope it would boost his interest in having it because he worries about his size.

I always compliment him and say that I enjoyed it when I really am left frustrated and wanting more --Because it lasts 5-10 minutes maximum-

I have talked about stuff that I would love him to try with me but he says that he would feel 'Dirty' doing it and never wants to.

So, AIBU to fake an orgasm everytime?

Is he selfish for not trying harder to bring me to one?

Giving benefit of doubt here - stop faking, it is lying and clearly not getting you off anywhere.

If he doesn't masturbate then he should - it'll build up his tolerance so he can last longer.

YY to the vibrator - you deserve to be satisfied too.

If he thinks that what he is doing is enough -because you are pretending that it is - whose fault is that?

If you're not happy with a situation and you lie and pretend that you are - you have, sorry for being blunt, nobody to blame but yourself.

If you aren't happy - speak up. If you choose not to speak up - don't feel hard done by, because it's your choice.

It sounds like he's got issues about sex. But so have you if you are unable to discuss your physical needs and feel obliged to fake something because you are putting his feelings above your own.

Tell him you're unhappy, suggest counselling, let him know that this is actually a problem for you.

If he loves you, he'll want to try to make you happy and will work with you to at least try to meet you halfway.

omg why are you actualy with him OP

sorry to be harsh but it sounds like he has issues

lifes too short for shit sex

just the one? you're short-changing him.

Sorry but it wasnt just me breaking talk guidelines.

Have never been deleted before!!

twirls.................!!

What was that all about??
I was expecting to be able to give my wise sage wisdom here.
Think some men were on here not wanting to hear the truth?
Pity