To have forgotten how weird baby competition is, and feel a bit like

[Cathycomehome]

saying, "I neither know nor care, I never feed him anyway, so I'd be amazed if he's put on any weight since birth" the next time someone (bizarrely) wishes to compare my baby's weight with their baby's weight?

My ds1 is 12, ds2 four months, and one of the few reasons (other than, you know, paying bills and that ) that I'm glad to have gone back to work now is the avoidance of this kind of thing. can you tell I went to baby clinic today, for the first time since August, in case the surgery thought I should

[LifeIsButtercream]

YANBU! I still shudder at memories of a friend being practically thrilled that her 18m old DD had broken her arm 'first' because it 'showed how much more advanced she is, she's doing more daring things than the others because she's more clever and advanced'. If I had a £ for every time that woman used the term advanced.......